Your main contention is "GOD IS LOVE" and I agree. From your definition of LOVE, you determine God's other attributes and how He must act. I submit that you definition of GOD'S LOVE is inaccurate.
I state that GOD'S LOVE must be HOLY. Your usage of the meaning of GOD'S LOVE would make God unholy (which I am sure is not your intention).
Proof:
Consider the HOLINESS of God's Love
“A love of holiness cannot be without a hatred of everything that is contrary to it. As God necessarily loves himself, so he must necessarily hate everything that is against himself: and as he loves himself for his own excellency and holiness, he must necessarily detest whatsoever is repugnant to his holiness, because of the evil of it. Since he is infinitely good, he cannot but love goodness Psalm 11:7 “The righteous Lord loveth righteousness,” as it is a resemblance to himself, and cannot but abhor unrighteousness Psalm 11:6A Upon the wicked (godless) He will rain coals of fire, as being most distant from him, and contrary to him. If he have any esteem for his own perfections, he must needs have an implacable aversion to all that is so repugnant to him (Psalm 5:5 You hate all who do evil), that would, if it were possible, destroy him, and is a point directed, not only against his glory, but against his life. If he did not hate it, he would hate himself: for since righteousness is his image, and sin would deface his image; if he did not love his image, and loathe what is against his image, he would loathe himself, he would be an enemy to his own nature. Nay, if it were possible for him to love it, it were possible for him not to be holy, it were possible then for him to deny himself, and will that he were no God, which is a palpable contradiction.
He can no more cease to hate impurity than he can cease to love holiness: if he should in the least instant approve of anything that is filthy, in that moment he would disapprove of his own nature and being
In short, I submit your definition of GOD'S LOVE must ensure His love is HOLY. (Aside: His Love should not be in conflict with His other attributes either i.e. immutable)