Jesus told others to count the cost before they choose to follow. He didn’t promise once “born again” they’ll have a new heart so they’ll be no cost too high.
27Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.
28For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?
29Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him,
30saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish.’
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Notice Jesus warns us and doesn’t promise he’ll bear all for us and that not finishing is possible.
You know, it’s better to press in and seek Him, read his word, discipline your life to staying true rather then relying on a theology that tells you He is doing all that for you.