Brothers and Sisters,
It would be good if we thought about Jesus and not what we get out of him. I know it is hard because all the "worship" songs for the most part talk about what we get out of him. The sermons are what we get out of him or how He exists (is there) to comfort us and meet our needs. I cannot express how freeing it is not to be focused on what you get out of your relationship with God and moving into what pleasure He derives from our lives and the choices we make that bring His Kingdom into the world around us. Next time you take communion, which might be a while considering everything, focus on Jesus himself, not what he did for YOU.
Does it really do harm to consider that when Jesus said, "it is finished," he was not thinking of us but glad the horribly unspeakable suffering was done? If we really loved him, shouldn't we be glad with him to know his suffer was over? Isn't that more in line with loving Him?