No, I don't love doom and gloom, but speak the truth of what God's word has to say regarding end-time events, which are 180 degrees from you are believing and teaching.
Regarding the gathering of the church, your claim is ridiculous because it is found in the new testament, which is 1900 years old. This information didn't come from men, but is listed right there in John 14:1-3, I Thess.4:13-18 and I Cor.15:51-53. Jesus is coming back to gather His church/bride and take us to those places that He went to prepare for us in the Father's house. After the church has been removed, then the time of God's wrath will begin.
So regarding gloom and doom, it is not my word, but God's word. And He is going to punish those on the earth who have rejected His Son and continue living according to the sinful nature. Those who receive the mark of the beast, their place will be the lake of fire.
By the way, we have not become abusive, but are contending for the truth of God's word, which you are distorting.