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Virginkah24

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laughingheart said:
Why the sarcasm? There are many great people here and interesting forums. Let people get a chance to know you and you may end up finding some great friendships.
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Looking deeper at wat people are saying to me there are no decent people here
 
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Virginkah24 said:
Hey there I'm a virgin man from New York looking for a lovely virgin woman maybe I'll find her lol. Yeah right
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Hi there! I see that you were also born saved. Lookin' good;).

There are lots of lovely ladies here who have been washed in the precious blood of the Lamb and been made as white as snow. Just get born again and perhaps they will take a look at you:). A warm welcome to CC to ya!:)
 
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Virginkah24 said:
Hey there I'm a virgin man
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Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.


Virginkah24 said:
Looking deeper at wat people are saying to me there are no decent people here
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Romans 3
3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
3:24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:
3:25 Whom God hath set forth [to be] a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;
3:26 To declare, [I say], at this time his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.
 
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welcome to cc. the best way for people here to get to know you and for you to get to know them is by participating in the forums. there are all kinds of topics that you can contribute in. please keep in mind that although this is a christian site, members are from different parts of the world from different cultures/backgrounds/beliefs/etc. we all have different stories and experiences. but as long as we submit to the Holy Spirit, we can get along. also, tone gets lost in the writing, which can contribute to misunderstandings. we all need the Lord to help us be patient with each other.
 
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melita916 said:
welcome to cc. the best way for people here to get to know you and for you to get to know them is by participating in the forums. there are all kinds of topics that you can contribute in. please keep in mind that although this is a christian site, members are from different parts of the world from different cultures/backgrounds/beliefs/etc. we all have different stories and experiences. but as long as we submit to the Holy Spirit, we can get along. also, tone gets lost in the writing, which can contribute to misunderstandings. we all need the Lord to help us be patient with each other.
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Thank you for leaving a respectful comment I really appreciate it unlike other people who have bashed me. However I know the dream is dead and I will accept that idk what choices I will make on the way I just hope I dont die making the wrong decision with no chance of redemption
 
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I recommend you focus on the Lord. What goals do you have? What are your hobbies? Your identity is more than your virginity.
 
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melita916 said:
I recommend you focus on the Lord. What goals do you have? What are your hobbies? Your identity is more than your virginity.
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I just want the next chapter in my life to begin I'm only getting older. However I am trying to get in shape and my body in order more currently just working I dont really have goals in place yet just learning how to do certain things like drive n cook.
 
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Those are good things to learn. Jesus has set us free. Live the life God has given you. We can do so much for the kingdom in each chapter of life.
 
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The Bible says the heart is deceitful. We need Jesus to lead our lives.
 
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melita916 said:
The Bible says the heart is deceitful. We need Jesus to lead our lives.
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I agree but jesus is to far away to actually help. I know the bible is the answer but it doesnt give me closure it's like a text message compared to face to face talking
 
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Virginkah24 said:
jesus is to far away to actually help.
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Nope. He is right there, right now. He is waiting for you...
Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.

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it doesnt give me closure it's like a text message compared to face to face talking
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It's not about Virgin getting closure. It's about total and complete surrender to Him right now. He doesn't have to show you His face. You must come to Him by faith...
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith [it is] impossible to please [him]: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and [that] he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
 
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oyster67 said:
Nope. He is right there, right now. He is waiting for you...
Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.



It's not about Virgin getting closure. It's about total and complete surrender to Him right now. He doesn't have to show you His face. You must come to Him by faith...
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith [it is] impossible to please [him]: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and [that] he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
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What I am saying is I need closure not just as a virgin but as a regular human being who has felt many pain and emotions god will never talk to us physically and nor show his face ever. Which is difficult for me because that would give me closure it would help me push forward it is much more difficult to connect with god threw words and change. That's why I used the example. Text compared to face to face talking wouldnt you rather face to face
 
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Virginkah24 said:
What I am saying is I need closure not just as a virgin but as a regular human being who has felt many pain and emotions god will never talk to us physically and nor show his face ever. Which is difficult for me because that would give me closure it would help me push forward it is much more difficult to connect with god threw words and change. That's why I used the example. Text compared to face to face talking wouldnt you rather face to face
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The just shall live by faith. It is God's way. It is the best way. Just trust Him on this. He made you, He loves you, He died for you. I would rather do it God's way. Just trust Him. Father knows best.

Hebrews 11:6 But without faith [it is] impossible to please [him]: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and [that] he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

YOU NEED HIM! Just like the rest of us did.
 
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oyster67 said:
The just shall live by faith. It is God's way. It is the best way. Just trust Him on this. He made you, He loves you, He died for you. I would rather do it God's way. Just trust Him. Father knows best.

Hebrews 11:6 But without faith [it is] impossible to please [him]: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and [that] he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

YOU NEED HIM! Just like the rest of us did.
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Yea I understand I do lack faith but thts only because I had it for so long and nothing good ever happens to me just more screw ups n pain like if I have a target on me
 
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Virginkah24 said:
Yea I understand I do lack faith but thts only because I had it for so long and nothing good ever happens to me just more screw ups n pain like if I have a target on me
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You do. Satan is targeting all of us. He is desperate.
Jesus never promised us an easy life, but it will be worth it all when we get home.
Don't give up. We will pray for you and with you.
 
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There are a lot of folks on this site who have gone through a lot in life. I’m sure many can share with you their experiences. Check out the other parts of the forum and get involved in the topics. Although we are all in different parts of the world, we can still fellowship because we are the family of God.
 
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