I think I'll pass on those older threads if he was more ignorant toward women than he appears now.
Why do people think being insulting to everyone in one place makes them appear as if they know God would approve?
In regards to those who claim that faith is not a gift of God, and that the Reformed concept of regeneration preceding faith being unbiblical, here's a good response by the Monergism website on this matter:
Visitor comment:
God didn’t make me believe and he STILL gets all the glory. God is that good. God does not make automatons. The only way there can be love is if when God draws us he gives us the freedom to choose.
Response:
So if your toddler ran out in the street against your wishes and you ran out into oncoming traffic at the risk of your life to scoop him up, regardless of his will or wishes at the time, does that make him an automaton? Let's say another parent in the same situation simply stands at the curb and only yelled out to give the toddler a choice but did nothing more to help. Which of the two parents loved? Obviously the one who did not give him a choice but risked his life to MAKE CERTAIN the toddler was saved. That is the one who loved.
Just this one simple example from something that could happen in everyday life reveals a kind of flawed logic about love that can be easily refuted. As such you should probably never use this argument. It is not biblical and fails an easy test of logic.
The whole "man must have a free will for their to be love" is actually nowhere found in the bible. The bible teaches, rather, that while we were still sinners in rebellion God quickened us, opened our eyes, ears and heart to the gospel. We believed. (Deut 29:4, 30:6, Eph 2:5, 8). It is written, No one comes to Christ or says "Jesus is Lord" apart from the Holy Spirit (1 Cor 12:3)
Jesus says "the Spirit quickens, the flesh counts for nothing...that is why I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me grants it." John 6:63, 65
Left to himself no man comes to Christ when he hears the gospel but to those who are called, it is the power of God unto salvation (1 Cor 1:23-24, 2:14) So you cannot ascribe your repenting and believing, even partly, to your own wisdom, humility, sound judgement or good sense, but to Christ alone. It is because of Him that you are in Christ Jesus... so let him who boasts, boast in the Lord" - 1 Cor 1:29-31
Which of the two parents loved? Obviously the one who did not give him a choice but risked his life to MAKE CERTAIN the toddler was saved. That is the one who loved.
In regards to those who claim that faith is not a gift of God, and that the Reformed concept of regeneration preceding faith being unbiblical, here's a good response by the Monergism website on this matter:
Visitor comment:
God didn’t make me believe and he STILL gets all the glory. God is that good. God does not make automatons. The only way there can be love is if when God draws us he gives us the freedom to choose.
Response:
So if your toddler ran out in the street against your wishes and you ran out into oncoming traffic at the risk of your life to scoop him up, regardless of his will or wishes at the time, does that make him an automaton? Let's say another parent in the same situation simply stands at the curb and only yelled out to give the toddler a choice but did nothing more to help. Which of the two parents loved? Obviously the one who did not give him a choice but risked his life to MAKE CERTAIN the toddler was saved. That is the one who loved.
Just this one simple example from something that could happen in everyday life reveals a kind of flawed logic about love that can be easily refuted. As such you should probably never use this argument. It is not biblical and fails an easy test of logic.
The whole "man must have a free will for their to be love" is actually nowhere found in the bible. The bible teaches, rather, that while we were still sinners in rebellion God quickened us, opened our eyes, ears and heart to the gospel. We believed. (Deut 29:4, 30:6, Eph 2:5, 8). It is written, No one comes to Christ or says "Jesus is Lord" apart from the Holy Spirit (1 Cor 12:3)
Jesus says "the Spirit quickens, the flesh counts for nothing...that is why I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me grants it." John 6:63, 65
Left to himself no man comes to Christ when he hears the gospel but to those who are called, it is the power of God unto salvation (1 Cor 1:23-24, 2:14) So you cannot ascribe your repenting and believing, even partly, to your own wisdom, humility, sound judgement or good sense, but to Christ alone. It is because of Him that you are in Christ Jesus... so let him who boasts, boast in the Lord" - 1 Cor 1:29-31
It isnt a strawman if you are a strict Calvinist. Pre election is God choosing who He would save and would not.By the way, this reply isn't perfect in that I don't believe God saves people "against their will" , and this is a strawman of the Reformed position.
God changes the nature of the person, so that the person desires God. And that's the ONLY WAY they will desire God.
Free willers have a much too optimistic view of the fallen man's nature, and an underappreciation of what is required for him to turn to God in dependence.
Sometimes I wonder if many of them are simply unsaved, because if they experienced regeneration themselves, they should know these truths.
God changes the nature of the person, so that the person desires God. And that's the ONLY WAY they will desire God.
Sometimes I wonder if many of them are simply unsaved, because if they experienced regeneration themselves, they should know these truths.
It isnt a strawman if you are a strict Calvinist. Pre election is God choosing who He would save and would not.
Agree. Accept I believe God actively seeks all people. That is the only way all are without excuse Romans 1:20. But people have the will to either reject or accept.
As for too much optimism. Idk about that. Sounds like more of your doctrines talking than anything because of course if you believe in pre election as Calvinist do then I suppose someone thinking they accepted Jesus is too extreme for you.
Ah funny. Says every denomination. Elite mentality.
Lol...You don't believe that people are saved, who actually read the scriptures and understand that it's God's will that all be saved, and whosoever will let him come, choose you this day..... etc., etc.,Like I've said, I wonder if some free-willers are saved because they don't seem to see how the doctrine aligns with the experience of salvation. There was a younger guy in the jail who I talked with, one on one. I had given him a copy of the 1689 London Baptist Confession, which lays Reformed teaching out clearly. He read it and told me he knew it was true because it perfectly aligned with his experience and explained it well in terms of Scripture. That's where I am with it.
It isnt a strawman if you are a strict Calvinist. Pre election is God choosing who He would save and would not.
Agree. Accept I believe God actively seeks all people. That is the only way all are without excuse Romans 1:20. But people have the will to either reject or accept.
As for too much optimism. Idk about that. Sounds like more of your doctrines talking than anything because of course if you believe in pre election as Calvinist do then I suppose someone thinking they accepted Jesus is too extreme for you.
Ah funny. Says every denomination. Elite mentality.
Lol...You don't believe that people are saved, who actually read the scriptures and understand that it's God's will that all be saved, and whosoever will let him come, choose you this day..... etc., etc.,
And you believe what a guy in jail said actually proves your doctrine is right....Let me guess, the dude was also innocent, because you do know most people in jail are innocent and they most all get "saved" as soon as they are convicted....LOL Well, that's what they say anyhow....hahaha![]()
Going to your profile page (by hovering over your avatar and then clicking your user name) may be a better method. Once on your profile page, to the right of your avatar image, we can see four buttons: Follow, Ignore, Start conversation, and Find. Clicking Find presents a drop-down with three options, the bottom-most one being, Find all threads by UnitedWithChristI have several threads on the forums about them. Just do a search on my username. You might use "heart of flesh" as a search condition.
Lol...You don't believe that people are saved, who actually read the scriptures and understand that it's God's will that all be saved, and whosoever will let him come, choose you this day..... etc., etc.,
And you believe what a guy in jail said actually proves your doctrine is right....Let me guess, the dude was also innocent, because you do know most people in jail are innocent and they most all get "saved" as soon as they are convicted....LOL Well, that's what they say anyhow....hahaha![]()
And..by the way, I only had a few guys tell me that they weren't guilty, or that they were not as guilty as the charges that were leveled.
If it was discussed, many of them would admit that they were, in fact, deserved their situation.
That's the refreshing thing about Reformed believers. They, also, while not being in jail, realize that they deserve eternal punishment. Therefore, they realize the depths of God's mercy and grace extended to them.
That's what a good understanding of theology does for a person.
Not so with many free-willers. I would say that is where you find the most self-righteous people on the planet. Some of them are like Pharisees who outwardly seemed to be clean but inside were full of fiilth. And, many of them are blind to their sin.
I suspect that a lot of free-willers really haven't been taught by God the deceitfulness of their nature, or they would not continue to resist the fact that the fallen man has a heart of stone. If they haven't been taught by God the true, deceitful state of their hearts, perhaps they haven't even been regenerated yet.
I can remember that for four months, I was studying the Bible prior to being regenerated. I thought I had cleaned my life up, and was doing good works like helping old people with yard work, etcetera. I counseled with the pastor on baptism, and he said, do you know that you are self-righteous? I didn't even know what he was talking about. He told me to go to God in prayer and ask him to show me my self-righteousness. I spent a lot of time the next two weeks praying about this, and God just flipped the switch in my mind one morning. All of a sudden I saw how my sinful, heart of stone was deceiving myself into thinking that I was a good person.
Then, I was able to repent and place my faith in Christ.
To be honest, I suspect that many free-willers have never reached that point and are not true believers. I think that is why they have an issue with this view of salvation that God must give the person a heart of flesh to replace the heart of stone, in order to produce faith and repentance. The kind of faith and repentance they have is not real faith and repentance. They are not even aware of the deceitful nature of sin and the fallen state.
And, just to let you know, I think it's possible the jail guards were in worse spiritual condition than some of the men. And, in fact, it's very possible some of the other chaplain aides were in a similar situation. Some probably really haven't experienced the deadness of their condition. They may have trotted down some aisle in a moment of emotion, but in reality they were not regenerated.
I suspect this is the case with many from groups like Independent Fundamentalist Baptists, some Southern Baptists, Free Grace Movement, and Grace Evangelical Society guys too..those that have a poor understanding of repentance. I would lump them in this category of "no-lordship salvation" guys. I suspect a significant portion of those types are lost.
LOL...I was not looking down on anyone. It appears you have got that all backwards "freewillers"I don't rely solely on his testimony in this regard. I mentioned my own testimony.
And, in regards to this, criminals are human beings, too. They are made in the image of God, and it may challenge your ability to understand this, but God can regenerate ANYONE.
This particular guy is studying biblical counseling so he can help other substance abusers.
By the way, this seems to reveal the free-willer mentality. Many of them actually believe they are virtuous and look down on some such as this inmate.
And, just so you are aware of this, many of the prisoners do, indeed, read their bibles regularly. This person was very diligent in his studies.
Also, it seems like you have some mistaken view of how God accomplishes his will. Reading Scripture and hearing the Gospel is part of the means God uses to accomplishing his decree. Regeneration does not occur in a vacuum.
A good analogy would be a woodpile. Parents can build a "woodpile" for their children by exposing them to catechism questions and Scriptural memorization. These things aren't the primary cause of salvation, though. It is the Holy Spirit who ignites the fire through regeneration.
An intelligent person can see how secondary causes are used to produce salvation, but it is ultimately God's regenerative power that saves.
Additionally, I would like to see your "whosoever will" scripture reference. If you are talking about John 3:16, you quoted it very badly.
It says this:
John 3:16 16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
(ESV)
And, I totally agree with this verse.
Anyone who believes will not perish but will have eternal life.
The real issue is, what causes belief?
I maintain that regeneration causes belief, and it is a specific gift of God through being given a heart of flesh to replace the heart of stone that the fallen man operates on.
If you really want to know what I think about your retort, I find it amusing because it is a very ignorant way to address my claims. I also find it disgusting because you are belittling a young man that I have a lot of respect for. He was motivated enough by sound teaching to begin seeking training so he can help other addicts.
So, what have you done with your Christianity? Are you seeking to serve God like he is? Or, are you some lone ranger Christian who sits at home waiting for the "rapture"?
He was one of the "success stories" of my jail ministry endeavor, although I'm not dumb enough to fail to acknowledge it was God's work if he regenerated them. I just got lucky enough to help them along a little. There's one other guy who I think will go in the same direction, but he is probably not able to handle the academic challenge. I believe he will probably lead a Christian recovery group at some point, though.
For anyone who wants to see a Scriptural basis for my position, I have several threads on the forums about them. Just do a search on my username. You might use "heart of flesh" as a search condition.
And..by the way, I only had a few guys tell me that they weren't guilty, or that they were not as guilty as the charges that were leveled.
If it was discussed, many of them would admit that they were, in fact, deserved their situation.
That's the refreshing thing about Reformed believers. They, also, while not being in jail, realize that they deserve eternal punishment. Therefore, they realize the depths of God's mercy and grace extended to them.
That's what a good understanding of theology does for a person.
Not so with many free-willers. I would say that is where you find the most self-righteous people on the planet. Some of them are like Pharisees who outwardly seemed to be clean but inside were full of fiilth. And, many of them are blind to their sin.
I suspect that a lot of free-willers really haven't been taught by God the deceitfulness of their nature, or they would not continue to resist the fact that the fallen man has a heart of stone. If they haven't been taught by God the true, deceitful state of their hearts, perhaps they haven't even been regenerated yet.
I can remember that for four months, I was studying the Bible prior to being regenerated. I thought I had cleaned my life up, and was doing good works like helping old people with yard work, etcetera. I counseled with the pastor on baptism, and he said, do you know that you are self-righteous? I didn't even know what he was talking about. He told me to go to God in prayer and ask him to show me my self-righteousness. I spent a lot of time the next two weeks praying about this, and God just flipped the switch in my mind one morning. All of a sudden I saw how my sinful, heart of stone was deceiving myself into thinking that I was a good person.
Then, I was able to repent and place my faith in Christ.
To be honest, I suspect that many free-willers have never reached that point and are not true believers. I think that is why they have an issue with this view of salvation that God must give the person a heart of flesh to replace the heart of stone, in order to produce faith and repentance. The kind of faith and repentance they have is not real faith and repentance. They are not even aware of the deceitful nature of sin and the fallen state.
And, just to let you know, I think it's possible the jail guards were in worse spiritual condition than some of the men. And, in fact, it's very possible some of the other chaplain aides were in a similar situation. Some probably really haven't experienced the deadness of their condition. They may have trotted down some aisle in a moment of emotion, but in reality they were not regenerated.
I suspect this is the case with many from groups like Independent Fundamentalist Baptists, some Southern Baptists, Free Grace Movement, and Grace Evangelical Society guys too..those that have a poor understanding of repentance. I would lump them in this category of "no-lordship salvation" guys. I suspect a significant portion of those types are lost.
LOL...I was not looking down on anyone. It appears you have got that all backwards "freewillers"as you call us are not the ones looking down on others, acting superior to others, or trying to limit who God can and will save. Pretty sure that is what the Calvinist do, in telling people they have no choice either way. Now that sure isn't biblical and that really is a bad doctrine. God says whosoever will let him come and drink of the waters of life freely, but Calvin says no and tells people it is limited. What????