Additionally don't feel pushed into it. I enjoy friendly debates with people who can challenge the way I think. But you're by no means obligated.
I don't mind debates either, even heated debates, but a few things which I cannot stand and that brings out Marine in me and also the Spiritual Marine in me are the following things which MANY Cainologists, salvation losers and workers for do....
a. When they embellish, twist, or change what we or the bible states
b. When they falsely accuse us of a live as we please and or sin as we like dogma like the Pharisees did to Paul
c. When they oppose the promises, power, work, of Christ and his blood by interjecting self into the equation concerning salvation
d. Whey they flat lie or misrepresent what we say and or stand for
e. When they deny that Jesus begins, finishes and completes the work of faith in US by saying WE MUST maintain it......
and a few other things.......