It is evident from the title of the OP that you have a serious misunderstanding about this subject.
BAPTISM WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT
I [John] indeed baptize you with water unto repentance: but he that cometh after me is mightier than I, whose shoes I am not worthy to bear: He [Christ] shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost, and with fire: (Matthew 3:11)
THE OUTPOURING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT
And, being assembled together with them, commanded them that they should not depart from Jerusalem, but wait for the promise of the Father, which, saith he, ye have heard of me. For John truly baptized with water; but ye shall be baptized with the Holy Ghost not many days hence. (Acts 1:4,5)
ACTS 2: THE DAY OF PENTECOST (TONGUES FOR THE APOSTLES AND DISCIPLES)
1 And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place.
2 And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and it filled all the house where they were sitting.
3 And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them.
4 And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.
ACTS 2: THE GIFT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WITHOUT A MANIFESTATION OF TONGUES
36 Therefore let all the house of Israel know assuredly, that God hath made that same Jesus, whom ye have crucified, both Lord and Christ.
37 Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
39 For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.
40 And with many other words did he testify and exhort, saying, Save yourselves from this untoward generation.
41 Then they that gladly received his word were baptized [Christian baptism, not tongues]: and the same day there were added unto them about three thousand souls.
So what we see is that the baptism WITH the Holy Ghost is the same as receiving the gift of the Holy Spirit without necessarily speaking in tongues (languages). Is it as essential today as it was then? ABSOLUTELY. No one can be saved without receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost.