ya know, side note: I was on the pill and STILL had babies
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for some reason I don't think as a Christian wife that if I were to go to my Christian husband of whom I've been married 10+ years and have had 3 children with and say
"MMMM nope, not tonight dear. We've already pro-created enough"
somehow, I just don't think that would fly......
oh and I think 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 sums it up nicely......
A husband should satisfy his wife’s needs. And a wife should satisfy her husband’s needs. The wife’s body does not belong only to her. It also belongs to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong only to him. It also belongs to his wife. You shouldn’t stop giving yourselves to each other. You might possibly do this when you both agree to it. And you should only agree to it to give yourselves time to pray. Then you should come together again. In that way, Satan will not tempt you when you can’t control yourselves.