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I might describe myself as an empath. if I wasn't such an unreliable listener.
But Ive noticed in this hyper psychologically aware world, that people are attracted to such labels.
"I'm one of the good guys. Not like one of those nasty narcissists!"
So you are either a narcissist or an empath. You couldn't possibly be both? that would be too confusing. Yes I much prefer to keep it simple.
I suffer and those other people cause my suffering! narcissists go to Hell and empaths go to Heaven. they took advantage of my nice nature and I would've spoiled my totally nice reputation by standing up to them. So I didn't stand up to them.
I do occasionally listen very well to people. Probably because I like them. they said something that struck a chord. But if they become talkaholics, I start to feel very sorry for myself. And I wonder if this suffering is a waste. yeah ok "look Im really busy at the moment. sorry I have to leave"....wow I said it ! How assertive I am! Feel the power! But look...he feels sad and neglected that I cut him off. How cruel I am! You mean Im a perpetrator now...not a victim? this is confusing....
But Ive noticed in this hyper psychologically aware world, that people are attracted to such labels.
"I'm one of the good guys. Not like one of those nasty narcissists!"
So you are either a narcissist or an empath. You couldn't possibly be both? that would be too confusing. Yes I much prefer to keep it simple.
I suffer and those other people cause my suffering! narcissists go to Hell and empaths go to Heaven. they took advantage of my nice nature and I would've spoiled my totally nice reputation by standing up to them. So I didn't stand up to them.
I do occasionally listen very well to people. Probably because I like them. they said something that struck a chord. But if they become talkaholics, I start to feel very sorry for myself. And I wonder if this suffering is a waste. yeah ok "look Im really busy at the moment. sorry I have to leave"....wow I said it ! How assertive I am! Feel the power! But look...he feels sad and neglected that I cut him off. How cruel I am! You mean Im a perpetrator now...not a victim? this is confusing....
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