the point as with most Calvinists here (who seem to be of the very hard core variety) is to cherry pick verses, twist what is said and try to lead you into a personal argument
failing that, you might be told that they are not a Calvinist and are simply believing what scripture states...while faithfully following Calvin's teaching
the point is often missed on purpose also in order to get personal and then you will be asked why you are so angry or some such thing which is irritating because you are not actually angry, but are rather frustrated or perplexed or even confused as to why nothing you say is dealt with in the way you said it
your point will never ever be considered so don't get too bogged down
we are not all like that
you will also be asked if you are a universalist at some point and they know full well you are not
the really nasty ones here have been calmed down no doubt because of the many complaints about them using mocking terms, name calling and saying we believe in a fake god etc etc
Believe me when I say this, I have no animosity toward those who believe in the distorted view of calvinism, but yes, they deliberately do not and won't respond to the truth of God's word because the Scriptures will show them that they are without question indulging in a false doctrine. I pulled away from discussing this issue with them because they are not truthful and when they cannot respond to the Scriptures they would immediately call names or mock to avoid answering. But believe me, I am not frustrated, but it is sad that they have indulged themselves in such a false doctrine, stating that God sends to eternal damnation as he wishes.
The question I do have for them, did God cause satan to rebel against him? According to calvinism they probably believe he did.
To those who believe in the distorted view of calvinism, continue to believe in your distorted view, but this I can say, the only way you can try to substantiate your distorted view is by pulling the Scriptures out of context so that you can make it fit your own distorted view.