Calvinism does not teach that Christ died for ALL.
Joh 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
Joh 1:9 That was the true Light, which lighteth every man that cometh into the world.
Act 17:29 Forasmuch then as we are the offspring of God, we ought not to think that the Godhead is like unto gold, or silver, or stone, graven by art and man's device.
Act 17:30 And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent.
Act 10:34 Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons:
Act 10:35 But in every nation he that feareth him, and worketh righteousness, is accepted with him.
1Ti 2:3 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;
1Ti 2:4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.
Rev 22:17 And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
God wants all people to be repent, come to the knowledge of the truth, and be saved.
Some people have a faulty interpretation for the Bible.
When the Bible says the saints are predestined to salvation it does not mean God chooses who will be saved and not saved without their choice, but means God already had the plan of salvation to give mankind before He laid down the foundation of the world, so it is the same as if the saints already have that salvation for God calls things that have not happened yet, as though they already happened, for if it is a plan of God to happen in the future it is the same as if it happened in the beginning, for it will surely come to pass with no hindrance.
Like the Lamb was slain from the foundation of the world, and the prophets blood shed from the foundation of the world.
And this salvation is to whoever wants it.
God is love, and His kingdom love, and He is not evil, so it goes against the nature of God for Him to choose without our choice in the matter.
If you program your computer to say I love you does your computer really love you, and if you program it to say I hate you will you get mad and smash it to pieces.
No person comes to the Son unless the Father draws them, and no person says Jesus is the Lord, but by the Holy Ghost, and Peter said Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the living God, and Jesus said flesh and blood did not reveal that to him but the Father.
Many are called but few are chosen, which God does the calling and choosing on earth.
God chose us we did not choose Him, and when God calls a person He will work in their life to get them to the truth, and when they get to the door of truth they have to choose whether to go through it or not, but they would of not gotten to the door of truth if God did not intervene in their life.
Some people do not get to the door of truth, and some people get to the door of truth but do not go through it, which they have a form of godliness, but deny the power thereof, from such turn away, ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth, and it points out their sins, which they are lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God.
Which the Lord knows them that are His having this seal that everyone that names the name of Christ depart from iniquity, and awake to righteousness, and sin not, but some do not have the knowledge of God.
Which a Spirit led life will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh, for they have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts, and show the ways of the Spirit and not the flesh, and God will not allow them to be tempted above what they are able, and will give them an escape from the temptation so they can bear it.
So there is no excuse which not everyone that says Lord Lord will dwell with Jesus, for they did not do the will of the Father, and were workers of iniquity.
Many people who believe in Calvinism seem to have hypocrisy, and worldliness about them, and many say they cannot abstain from sin, and sin daily, and their sin does not affect their relationship with God, so they are holding unto sin.
The Bible says turn away from them.