Calvinists are true monergists
monergistic: a work produced singly, by one person
synergistic: a work that involves cooperation between two or more persons or things
Calvinists teach that there is no synergistic work between people and their Creator. they will tell you that when a man or woman appears to cooperate with God, they are actually only doing what God predetermined they should do
in that very weak fashion, they determine to hang onto their monergistic beliefs at all costs, ignoring all scripture that teaches and clearly indicates that people can be unclear on the will of God and sometimes go down the wrong path
if God pretermines everything, then why on earth would anyone EVER go against His predetermined will?
did God predetermine that David should sin with Bathsheeba? that is not a god anyone should think actually loves them
that is a god who likes to toy with his creation and then condemn them for sinning and punish them
being somewhat familiar with Greek mythology, I can determine that that god, fits far better with the relationship between the gods of Mt Olympus than the God of the Bible
but then if you believe that God creates people to go to hell with no other purpose for their existance to show, then I guess you have no problem with laughing at the silly little creatures he created in order to torture them
monergistic: a work produced singly, by one person
synergistic: a work that involves cooperation between two or more persons or things
Calvinists teach that there is no synergistic work between people and their Creator. they will tell you that when a man or woman appears to cooperate with God, they are actually only doing what God predetermined they should do
in that very weak fashion, they determine to hang onto their monergistic beliefs at all costs, ignoring all scripture that teaches and clearly indicates that people can be unclear on the will of God and sometimes go down the wrong path
if God pretermines everything, then why on earth would anyone EVER go against His predetermined will?
did God predetermine that David should sin with Bathsheeba? that is not a god anyone should think actually loves them
that is a god who likes to toy with his creation and then condemn them for sinning and punish them
being somewhat familiar with Greek mythology, I can determine that that god, fits far better with the relationship between the gods of Mt Olympus than the God of the Bible
but then if you believe that God creates people to go to hell with no other purpose for their existance to show, then I guess you have no problem with laughing at the silly little creatures he created in order to torture them
Why I am not a monergist: Because the Bible tells me to do certain things. If monergism was true, which as you defined it means a work produced singly, by one person, then all the commandments and guidance from the Bible wouldn't be necessary, since God alone would be doing it, alone, no cooperation needed.
I can already here the calvinist say but God doesn't need help from puny humans! He is Sovereign! Amen to that, I believe it, but in His sovereignity this is how God decided to do it. God's grace has appeared unto all men, teaching us.... it says.
This grace that has been revealed to all men, like the Holy Spirit which is sent into the world is something men must take a hold of, embrace, humble ourselves in front of God, for we know God gives grace to the humble. God's grace is indeed available to all, appeared unto all, however if what it teaches is rejected, and we do not deny ungodliness and worldly lusts, we will perish, not because Jesus failed, or because God failed, but because we failed, and that is how God has chosen to do it. God is seeking for a man today, can He find him? God is seeking for a godly woman to stay strong in a tough family situation.
I just answered the question of unconditional election, does God give grace randomly? Jesus said God gives grace to the humble.
I believe dispensationalism is a good way to study the Bible, see where it all fits. If done in moderation and not over-divided, it can be helpful in weeding out heresies from the Church such as hebrew roots doctrine, I see nothing wrong with believing in a pre-trib rapture, imminent return. I have always believed in an imminent return but recently I have been convinced thoroughly that the pre-trib rapture position is the correct one, thanks again to brother @Ahwatukee