Always check the dates on threads. I really don't think guys and girls should discuss these things in Co-ed forums, that's just me though.
Unfortunately men don't have a male only section so I guess I won't comment at present
I will say as an interesting F.Y.I that nocturnal emissions are mentioned in scripture. You were considered unclean until evening. So if it was an offense (debatable as so was a woman's period)... then we'd have to get into what is clean in OT. So there we have the highest standard that was put forth as far as I can tell, and I think it is certainly something to war for, coupling it with Yeshua mentioning that even looking lustfully at a woman is committing adultery in your heart.
Attainable? Not by ourselves but I do think it pleases the Lord to pursue holiness in this fashion and your flesh will take care of itself and it is no sin to you..you taking care of your flesh is different as the need has already been provided for through sleep.