I guess I have to express my surprise that out of all the people you could have targeted as victims on this site, you chose Tourist, who happens to be one of the kindest and most compassionate members here.
I'm divorced as well, though not remarried (but I would consider it though if I felt that's where God was leading me), so please feel free to throw a few rocks my way while you're doing the slinging. I'm starting to feel left out.
Besides, people have told me my whole life that I'm a few rocks short of a whole pile.