I disagree. I had the opposite experience. Surrendering to Jesus changed my life significantly but it was very steep and constant stress and fear (bad kind of fear) because I thought I could "lose" salvation. It was an awful life. To teach a little sheep that is to teach them to be in chronic agony! There were many times I could not sleep and agonized, in fear that God would disown me. It's not right to teach it to anyone. When I received - allowed myself to finally receive - the UNCONDITIONAL love of Jesus by believing eternal security I made some really big spiritual breakthroughs. A lot more joy and peace...
My Reply
I do not know how you can have of a fear of losing salvation when you are loving and following Him. How HIS sacrifice, His voluntary death on the cross, the spirit that dwells within you when you take Him into your life as a comforter and helper on your walk through this world of flesh allowed that within you I can only assume came from who ever taught you of our Lord and Saviour in the first place. What could cause someone who has heard the word to not belive in His saving grace is something I can not understand.
But lets take this on Huge problem.
Romans 11:21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
God cut of His own People, IF HE CUT THEM OFF BE CAREFUL HE DOESN'T CUT YOU OFF
Romans 11:22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
AND SEVERITY OF GOD, ON THEM WHICH FELL but toward thee IF THOU CONTINUE OR ELSE
Romans 11:23 And they also, if they abide not still in unbelief, shall be graffed in: for God is able to graff them in again.
AND GODS PEOPLE IF THEY DON'T REMAIN IN UNBELIEF MAY COME BACK (THOSE WHO DON'T REMAIN IN UNBELIEF)
Romans 11:24 For if thou wert cut out of the olive tree which is wild by nature, and wert graffed contrary to nature into a good olive tree: how much more shall these, which be the natural branches, be graffed into their own olive tree?
WHEN THOSE WHO WERE CUT OUT COME TO BELIEF THEY DO VERY WELL
Romans 11:25 For I would not, brethren, that ye should be ignorant of this mystery, lest ye should be wise in your own conceits; that blindness in part is happened to Israel, until the fulness of the Gentiles be come in.
DONT BE IGNORANT TO THE MYSTERY AND WISE IN YOUR OWN CONCEITS, THIS IS HAPPENING FOR THE GENTILES TO FIND GOD, SO DON'T GO JUDGING THEM IT IS ALL OF GOD AND IT IS GOD YOU JUDGE
Romans 11:26 And so all Israel shall be saved: as it is written, There shall come out of Sion the Deliverer, and shall turn away ungodliness from Jacob:
ALL OF ISRAEL SHALL BE SAVED WHO? ALL OF ISRAEL . GOD IS TALKING ABOUT ISRAEL NOW
Romans 11:27 For this is my covenant unto them, when I shall take away their sins.
BECAUSE HE HAS A COVENANT WITH THEM AND IT IS TO "THEM" WHEN HE TAKES AWAY THEIR SINS
Romans 11:28 As concerning the gospel, they are enemies for your sakes: but as touching the election, they are beloved for the father's sakes.
THEY ARE ENEMIES FOR YOU, BUT THEY ARE GODS ELECT AND THEY ARE BELOVED BY GOD EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE GOING THROUGH THIS
Romans 11:29 For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.
BUT HE HAS A COVENANT WITH THEM AND AS SUCH FOR GODS ELECT HIS GIFTS AND CALLING ARE WITHOUT REPENTANCE.
Romans 11:30 For as ye in times past have not believed God, yet have now obtained mercy through their unbelief:
NOW GOD IS REMINDING YOU THAT YOU IN THE PAST HAVE NOT BELIEVED GOD, AND NOW YOU ARE OBTAINING MERCY THROUGH WHAT? THROUGH THEIR UNBELIEF
Romans 11:31 Even so have these also now not believed, that through your mercy they also may obtain mercy.
AND IT HAPPENS TO AGAIN
Romans 11:32 For God hath concluded them all in unbelief, that he might have mercy upon all.
AND NOW THAT ISRAEL AND THE GENTILES HAVE ALL HAD UNBELIEF AND HAVE FOUND BELIEF THROUGH EACH OTHERS UNBELIEF GOD CAN HAVE MERCY ON ALL
Romans 11:33 O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out!
SO ALL WE DON'T UNDERSTAND, OR CAN'T FIGURE OUT AS HUMANS IS ALL GODS WILL. HENCE DON'T JUDGE ANOTHER MAN, HE MAY BE GODS SERVANT, ON A MISSION FROM GOD, AND YOU ARE JUDGING HIM BASED ON YOUR MISSION FROM GOD AND GOD DOES NOT LIKE THAT. AND THAT IS HOW YOU WILL BE JUDGED.