I was in an abusive first marriage
https://www.christianforums.com/threads/unpopular-opinion-on-women-sex.8072272/page-5#post-72991626
but I don't see the point of a specific forum just for victims of abuse or those trained to deal with it
Any of us can talk when and where appropriate on open forum.
Just becAuse you want to infer abuse upon a situation the woman herself never indicated abuse doesn't mean we should have a closed and private forum.
I for one applaud the post given by
@maxwel I see it as well thought out and quite appropriate.