I am no one's judge,I leave them in the hands of a merciful God! I know what I believe the word tells me,under the leadership of the Holy Spirit and live by this! It is easy to allow the flesh to rise up under being demeaned and called names. I hope this doesn't happen to you! I take my walk with Jesus as a life and death matter,so I try to make it about Him and not me! Blessings!