Have you pondered the possibility that you are a little inept of explaining scripture?
I would start there...with a different tenor.
Hi preston,
There is nothing inept going on here. What do you do with someone with a hammer wanting submission?
Exit the building, lol.
Paul is explicit about behaviour that is poor, ungodly,
3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people.
4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.
5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person--such a man is an idolater--has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.
Eph 5
8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light
9 (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth)
10 and find out what pleases the Lord.
Eph 5
19 Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord,
20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Eph 5
Talking about sin in the third person, as if it is something not our responsibility but innate
is a deception, which leads people to claim we cannot avoid sin, and are bound to it until
we meet the Lord. Odd conversations come about where the idea is sin happens all the time
without even doing things. So Gods cleansing and forgiveness is not true, we are not truly
cleansed, so they believe. To even walk in purity for one second for them is impossible.
The language to cover this would be, no in Gods eyes we are pure because of Jesus covering
us, rather than we are washed clean and walk as a purified people.