JOHN 3 [3] Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, EXCEPT A MAN BE BORN AGAIN, HE CANNOT SEE THE KINGDOM OF GOD.[4] Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?[5] Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, EXCEPT A MAN BE BORN OF WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, HE CANNOT ENTER INTO THE KINGDOM OF GOD.[6] That which is BORN OF THE FLESH IS FLESH; and that which is BORN OF THE SPIRIT IS SPIRIT.
Jesus tells Nic you must be born again to enter the kingdom. Verse 6 explains that which is born of the flesh is flesh. That which is born of the spirit is spirit.
For me I believe you are both correct and not correct. God's word teaches we need to be spiritually born again on earth before we can be physically born again at the second coming. So you are right in saying that we are born again at the second coming but you are also wrong to think you will be physically born again without first being spiritually born again before the second coming.
WE NEED TO BE SPIRITUALLY BORN AGAIN TODAY BEFORE WE CAN BE PHYSICALLY BORN AGAIN TOMMORROW.
Some scriptures for consideration...
1 John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, EXCEPT A MAN BE BORN OF
WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, HE CANNOT ENTER INTO THE KINGDOM OF GOD.[6] That which is BORN OF THE FLESH IS FLESH; and that which is BORN OF THE SPIRIT IS SPIRIT.
The water represents Jesus (the word of God) received through the spiritual baptism of dying to sin and being raised to walk in newness of life. The "NEW LIFE" of the christian is what is means to be spiritually born again.
Matthew 3:16 And Jesus when HE WAS BAPTISED AND WENT STRAIGHTAWAY FROM THE WATER AND LO THE HEAVENS WERE OPENED UNTO HIM AND HE SAW THE SPIRIT OF GOD DESCENDING AS A DOVE COMING UPON HIM.
Mark 1:8 I BAPTIZE YOU WITH WATER; BUT HE SHALL BAPTIZE YOU WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT.
John 4:10 Jesus answered and said unto her, If thou knewest the gift of God, and who it is that saith to thee, Give me to drink; YOU WOULD HAVE ASKED HIM AND HE WOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU LIVING WATER.
John 4:13-14 13 Jesus answered and said unto her, Every one that drinketh of this water shall thirst again: 14 but WHSOEVER DRINKS OF THE WATER THAT I SHALL GIVE TO THEM SHALL NEVER THIRST; BUT THE WATER THAT I SHALL GIVE TO THEM SHALL BECOME IN HIM A WELL OF WATER SPRINGING UP TO ETERNAL LIFE.
John 7:38 HE THAT BELIEVES ON ME (the word) AS THE SCRIPTURE HAS SAID FROM WITHIN HIMSHALL FLOW RIVERS OF LIVING WATER
Acts 1:5 For JOHN INDEED BAPTIZED WITH WATER; BUT YOU SHALL BE BAPTIZED IN THE HOLY SPIRIT NOT MANY DAYS HENCE.
We need to be spiritually baptized and raised in newness of life (born again) by faith in God's Word to receive God's Spirit before we can be physically born again at the second coming..
1 Peter 1:23, BEING BORN AGAIN NOT OF CORRUPTIBLE SEED BUT OF INCORRUPTIBLE, BY THE WORD OF GOD WHICH LIVES AND ABIDES FOREVER.
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Emphasis in on being born again to "newness of life" through faith in God's word...
1 John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, EXCEPT A MAN BE BORN OF
WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, HE CANNOT ENTER INTO THE KINGDOM OF GOD.[6]
That which is BORN OF THE FLESH IS FLESH; and that which is BORN OF THE SPIRIT IS SPIRIT.
John 6:63, IT IS THE SPIRIT THAT GIVES LIFE; THE FLESH PROFITS NOTHING: THE WORDS THAT I SPEAK UNTO YOU THEY ARE SPIRIT AND THEY ARE LIFE.
Romans 8:13-14 13, FOR IF YOU LIVE AFTER THE FLESH YOU SHALL DIE; BUT IF YOU THEOUGH THE SPIRIT DO MORTIFY THE DEEDS OF THE BODY YOU SHALL LIVE. FOR AS MANY AS ARE LED OF THE SPIRIT THEY ARE THE SONS OF GOD.
Romans 8:1-4 1, There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, WHO WALK NOT AFTER THE FLESH BUT AFTER THE SPIRIT 2, FOR THE LAW OF THE SPIRIT OF LIFE HAS MADE ME FREE FROM THE LAW OF SIN AND DEATH . 3, For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: 4, THAT THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF THE LAW MIGHT BE FULFILLED IN US WHO WALK NOT AFTER THE FLESH BUT AFTER THE SPIRIT.
Galatian 5:16 This I say, WALK IN THE SPIRIT AND YOU SHALL NOT FULFILL THE LUSTS OF THE
FLESH (σάρξ G4561; flesh here means carnal mind; sinful nature)
2 Corinthians 5:7 FOR WE WALK BY FAITH AND NOT BY SIGHT
1 John 3:3-10
3, And every man that has this hope in him purifies himself, even as he is pure.
4, Whoever commits sin transgresses also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law.
5, And you know that he was manifested to take away our sins; and in him is no sin.
6, Whoever stays in him sins not: whoever sins has not seen him, neither known him.
7, Little children, let no man deceive you: he that does righteousness is righteous, even as he is righteous.
8, He that commits sin is of the devil; for the devil sins from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.
9, WHOSOEVER IS BORN OF GOD DOES NOT COMMIT SIN; FOR
HIS SEED REMAINS IN HIM; AND HE CANNOT SIN BECAUSE HE IS BORN OF
10, In this the children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whoever does not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loves not his brother.
Luke 8:11 Now the parable is this: THE SEED IS THE WORD OF GOD.
1 Peter 1:23 BEING BORN AGAIN, NOT OF CORRUPTIBLE SEED, BUT OF INCORRUPTIBLE BY THE WORD OF GOD, which lives and stays for ever.
It is through faith in God's Word that we are spiritually born again to newness of life today...
1 John 5:4 FOR WHATSOEVER IS BORN OF GOD OVERCOMES THE WORLD; AND THIS IS THE VICTORY THAT OVERCOMES THE WORLD EVEN OUR FAITH.
We are spiritually born again today to walk in God's Spirit (see also Romans 6).
God bless.