So another raging debate about tongues.
My experience is that when I was saved, I had the full Holy Spirit within me. That is Scriptural. We are not saved without the Holy Spirit within us.
I was filled with joy when God saved me. I started reading my Bible daily, praying, and my life was centred around Jesus.
My husband and I moved to Vancouver, and I met a guy in a laundromat who invited me to his church. It was charismatic. I heard strange things, and eventually learned it was speaking in tongues.
I was told constantly I need a second blessing, and to speak in tongues, which everyone did. Everyone told me it would make me closer to Jesus.
So, because if all the pressure, I started faking tongues. I didn't know I was faking, I thought it was real at that time. I didn't feel any different because I was already close to God! But it was pressure and nothing else.
We stayed in Pentecostal/charismatic churches for 15 years. The more I read the Bible, the shallower the preaching and doctrine seemed. It was always about Acts 2 and the other 4 or 5 places about speaking in tongues. I never heard about so many doctrines. Never heard the Bible systematically preached.
Then, some things happened which made me realize no one was really growing in Christ. We moved to an Evangelical Free church. I heard the Bible I was reading being preached. I was introduced to new ideas, doctrine and I realized what a lie the whole Charismatic Movement was. I realized how I had been led astray from the deep things of the Word and of God.
I am so blessed that God pulled me out of that cult. Because any group that says it has the only truth to be saved is a cult. I realize not every Pentecostal believes this, but it is the practice even. The AOG believes that people who don't speak in tongues. are second class Christians. That is the dogma followed in these churches. And pressure to get people to speak in tongues, like they are missing something, when in fact it is the charismatic/Pentecostal movement that is missing out on the whole truth of God.
I'm not a total cessationist. I know of a man who spoke 4 words in another tongue, which turned out to be Armenian, and there was s man in the meeting who was Armenian, and he wrote the words down, and the translation into English - "Jesus Christ is Lord." I think that if someone speaks on another teal language, or someone hears it in another real language AND they hearer gets saved, that is real! (And please don't start harassing me about private prayer, been there, done that for 15 years, and it simply is not real.)
Historically tongues passed away, I believe, even before the NT was complete. For what purpose were they resurrected in 1905? I think it was just another fad/peer pressure.
So, no need to explain what I am missing, or what happened in Acts and in the early church. Tongues are not normal today, and people would do well to walk away from "experiences" and get to know God for who he is, and not for the fun times babbling! God has given us a huge Bible. Read through it. Read in context and I guarantee you will find something very different that what is happening in all these tongue speaking churches!