I hate being controlled, it is humiliating with sense of danger as in "submit" during the time that someone angrily declare that I should submit
I might be exaggerating, but I do "feel like a prey" at that situation
I hate being a prey, I want to be powerful like a predator
but this animal like thinking reveal that "prey" is wounding, while "predator" is the desire to overcompensate for our insecurities
and we know that the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God