Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; he who comes to Me will not hunger, and he who believes in Me will never thirst. But I said to you that you have seen Me, and yet do not believe. All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will certainly not cast out. For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me. This is the will of Him who sent Me, that of all that He has given Me I lose nothing, but raise it up on the last day. For this is the will of My Father, that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in Him will have eternal life, and I Myself will raise him up on the last day.” No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up on the last day. It is written in the prophets, ‘A nd they shall all be taught of G od .’ Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father, comes to Me. Not that anyone has seen the Father, except the One who is from God; He has seen the Father. Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes has eternal life.
JOHN 6:35-40, 44-47 NASB
https://bible.com/bible/100/jhn.6.35-47.NASB
If you believe scripture, and that these are the accurate words of Christ Jesus, it is impossible for a man to come to Jesus, and believe in him and be turned away. Because all that come to him come by the drawing of the Father who sent him, and he by his own words will not turn them away.
Yet this is what you say of many who have come to Jesus and believe in him, that they are turned away because they don't speak in tongues. You make the words of Jesus into a lie, because he said," no man comes to him except the Father draws him, and that if any comes to him he will not turn them away, but will raise them up in the last day". If you believe these words then it is impossible to believe that so many people who love the Lord and believe in him and call on his name are turned away because they never speak in tongues. I know too many people who exhibit the fruit of the spirit and walk in a wonderful example of love, and love the Lord and serve him who have never spoke in tongues.
Even Paul wrote, I wish you all spoke in tongues, but you do not. He was writing to Christians not the lost.