Because you're always so negative!! Isn't there ANYTHING positive that you can talk about?
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Because you're always so negative!! Isn't there ANYTHING positive that you can talk about?
Fine. I don't see though why you'd want to chat with a girl who feels sorry for herself yet has a life most people would kill for, who's so tired of trying to be positive because it's never worked for her, who feels like she has to get mad for people to listen to her. I'm a spoiled brat unworthy of all the good things in my life.
Didn't say you did or mean to imply that you have. But what I'm seeing is people commenting on her character based on her posts. I'm not saying this to shame you or anything. Just an observation.
Also, thanks for calling my offer leary. It's an offer of love. It's all any of us have to offer. At least as far as I can.
People, I've lost hope in having friends long ago. The only person I can truly go to without fear of judgment and condemnation is myself. Sure, I get p*ssy and immature and whine, but why try to fight it when that's all the world is willing to see?
I know but it reflects badly on you, trying to entice a young girl who has terrible depression and Asperger's to email you and talk "for hours on end". No offense, but your posts have antagonized her and she's made it clear she's not interested. You're new here so you haven't seen most of her other threads. Like Lynx said, most are responding based on her behavior in previous posts. Personally I'd feel more comfortable if she PM'ed with one of the ladies here.
Maybe I should just stop coming here period. It's obvious everyone here hates me and can't stand me even when they say they love me. It's obvious that I'll only make an utter fool of myself by coming here. My depression is inconsequential compared to the real sh*t I somehow was able to avoid by being born in the right time and place. What should my loneliness and depression matter to people who have real problems?
Just because you have a good family, nice stuff, etc. doesn't mean that you are happy or that you SHOULD be happy. I have most of those things, but I'm not happy. But I don't dwell on all the awfulness 24/7 like you do, either. I try to find positive stuff to think about, even when I'd rather entertain dark thoughts.
I don't have tolerance for people who continually feel sorry for themselves, so you won't get sympathy from me on that point. But you WILL get empathy from me, because I've been in the pit where you are, and felt those same feelings of anger and outrage.
You're not spoiled. You just focus too much on the bad stuff in life. That's why I avoid my oldest sister like the plague. She's a constantly negative person who just sucks the positivity out of everyone, and my mental health can't handle that.
I truly believe that your depression is a MAJOR contributing cause to your negative behavior. So please go see a doctor.
You need to visit the Testimonies forum and read people's testimonies of overcoming even worse things than loneliness and depression. Everyone has real problems. Me, you, everyone else here. Every one in the world deals with sh** every day. The difference is, they don't all dwell on their problems all the time as you do.
Your problems matter to Jesus. He took ALL our problems onto Himself on the cross. He knows the agonizing pain of being lonely, rejected and depressed. And He will gladly take this burden of hate, anger and self-pity away IF you let Him.
Ma'am, I have Aspergers'. I'd describe it here, but truly no one would know what it's like unless they experienced it themselves. All I can say is that it makes me socially awkward and often makes me look stupid. I think VERY black and white. I want relationships but don't understand them. I sometimes don't feel fully human because I have Aspergers'. This, coupled with my loneliness and melancholy personality, makes it very easy for me to fixate on bad things. I'm not giving excuses. I'm just stating facts.
Aspergers is not something you can just get rid of or turn on and off, no matter how much you might wish to. And I don't talk to people very much about it because they don't know what it's like.
And I admit it. I'm angry at God. I'm angry that he made me this way and I'm angry he hasn't relieved my loneliness at all, even though I prayed till I was blue in the face and got out every chance I got, and I'm angry because I feel like my struggles are a big deal even though I KNOW they aren't.
But like I said, God owes me nothing. If he's the same as all of you here, I wouldn't be surprised.
What about your sister's mental health? If no one wants to be around her then she'll have no chance of getting help.
This is not an enticement. Not at all. Christian love and care for someone who shares my doctrine and wants someone to talk to is a kindness. At least I think so. I am only trying to help. It's all I can offer.I know but it reflects badly on you, trying to entice a young girl who has terrible depression and Asperger's to email you and talk "for hours on end". No offense, but your posts have antagonized her and she's made it clear she's not interested. You're new here so you haven't seen most of her other threads. Like Lynx said, most are responding based on her behavior in previous posts. Personally I'd feel more comfortable if she PM'ed with one of the ladies here.
First of all, my name is Blue. Not "m'aam". That makes me feel old. LOL
OK, so you have Asperger's. So do other people here. I have epilepsy, started at the age of 5 and continues to this day. I don't know why God chose to give it to ME, because it's a nuisance and it affects my everyday life. We aren't supposed to have an easy life. That's why He gives us trials and tribulations, and sometimes diseases. He wants to see how well we can deal with it, and make something productive out of it instead of giving up and screaming "fu** you God".. I have no one to talk to about anything, no one to help me do stuff when I'm ill. I'm alone 24 hours a day and I spend nearly every dang day in physical pain of some sort. But I don't say "oh why poor me". I give thanks to God and try to make the best of it. And that's what YOU need to do.
I don't have some big grand testimony. Mine is boring compared to most people. It's funny. We don't wanna glorify sin yet you won't get a chance at the mic unless you came out drugs or prostitution or gang violence, etc. Then you got people like me who grew up in Mr. Rogers Neighborhood, wishing that we too could have a testimony like that. We start wishing we were assaulted or went down a path of sin because everyone loves those stories. Nobody loves the vanilla flavored story like mine. And I honestly wonder if God is really working in my life or if he's done it already and moved on to people who REALLY need him.
My sister grew up as a Christian. But circumstances and life events have jaded her and made her bitter, nasty and rude. And she refuses to listen to anything that we say to her. I can only pray that God gives her one last chance to repent before she dies.
I stand by what I said. I am being kind as much as I know how. I won't compromise my beliefs or opinions, but I consider telling the truth an act of love.
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I think wolves in sheep's clothing can be saved if they turn to Jesus. That's what's so beautiful about the Gospel. His forgiveness is available to absolutely everyone.
That's what's so beautiful about the Gospel. His forgiveness is available to absolutely everyone.
HP, your testimony doesn't need to be big or grand. The fact that you're here is a testimony. The fact that you still love God despite being angry at Him is a testimony. Everyone sins, everyone has been on that path. You're not alone on that path. So what if you grew up in a good neighborhood and have nice things? That doesn't guarantee happiness or an easy life.
And on behalf of everyone on this site, I PROMISE YOU that if you wrote a testimony, NO ONE will find it boring. God works in our lives for our ENTIRE life. You're just too full of anger and pity to see what He's done and what He is doing. You need to clear all this negativity out of your life before you can see or hear Him working.
Wrong.I think wolves in sheep's clothing can be saved if they turn to Jesus.
My problem is that I know I have nothing to be angry about. And ironically enough I start feeling more angry just for being angry, like I'm a spoiled brat or something.