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hii!

well i have a small question..... y do guys seem to like it when im kinda mean to them? its like i say sumthing kinda mean to them cuz their bugging me and then all the sudden they truely wont leave me alone! its like i say to them "go away" (or sumthing like that) and they like get way more interested! ...or ill be real sarcastic around them and they get more interested.... it's just not cool! lol.
 
It also comes to our urge to lead. God created men to be leaders for their wives and the planet. When something challenges that in us there is a desire to fix it.
 
simple its because you are a christian. Christians are the light of the world and you'll always look perfect for them. Just ignore them basically, they will get discouraged haha :)
 
If it's teasing they're doing then they are just doing it for lulz because you are giving a reaction.
In any other case... yes, they may just be wanting to patch things up.
 
thank you everyone!

@beau i think you slightly missed the point lol

@shemaiah idk if thats it or not...but id hope it would be :D

@danuk well thats true... i think your right like idt im playing hard to get or anything (but i dont want to be gotten) so maybe thats what they think...

@michelle yeah.... they most deffidently would have a crush on me
 
Sorry :( I thought I was on topic but what exactly are you wantin' to know?
 
ahh dont be sad!

all im asking is when a boy is annoying me (like following me around... or even just talking to me too much when i dont want to talk) and i respond in a kind of negitive/ jokeing way or am just plain mean to them... (like not real mean...but sum ppl would say i was being harsh...) then suddently they get more interested in me then ever! like if there was any doubt they liked me b4 theres none now! why do they still like me?
 
peachetty said:
hii!

well i have a small question..... y do guys seem to like it when im kinda mean to them? its like i say sumthing kinda mean to them cuz their bugging me and then all the sudden they truely wont leave me alone! its like i say to them "go away" (or sumthing like that) and they like get way more interested! ...or ill be real sarcastic around them and they get more interested.... it's just not cool! lol.
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I'm not like that. When girls are mean to me I take it to heart and I sometimes meditate over what they said for a long time. Maybe that's just because I'm a quiet-ish guy, but I'm sure it's not exclusively limited to 'shy' or 'outgoing' guys. Meaning, that outgoing guys can still be hurt when girls are mean to them. Now I'm happy to say that I can't remember when a girl was overly mean to me, probably because I don't give them a reason to be mean to me.
 
Ohhhhhhh, I understand now! I think that is how I used to be most of the time; I couldn't see that these girls weren't interested in me. I was quite stupid.
Anyways, perhaps they are just keen for a challenge? That's the thing that sticks out the most in my mind.
 
i'm not a teen but i'd like to reply haha. nobody likes to be rejected so , as beaublessed said , they might be seeing it as a challenge now. when i was a teen there was this guy and he tried to draw my attention , i did what you did too and now looking back i see that he felt rejected , that's not a good thing.... try to treat them as a sister would, if you can ,ask them questions about their lives offer godly advice , hopefully they will start seeing you another way . hope it helps :)
 
peachetty said:
hii!

well i have a small question..... y do guys seem to like it when im kinda mean to them? its like i say sumthing kinda mean to them cuz their bugging me and then all the sudden they truely wont leave me alone! its like i say to them "go away" (or sumthing like that) and they like get way more interested! ...or ill be real sarcastic around them and they get more interested.... it's just not cool! lol.
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Its because guys love to tease cute girls. If you weren't cute they would just go away like you asked.
 
haha yay for beau! lol well... i guess if im acting like that that would be considerd as a challenge.

and thank you everyone!!!

@ karine .... yeaah... i dont really want to like hurt themm... i want them to just go away... i could try that though! :)
 
well first of all I think that kids is not alowd to date until you are 17or18, and I know you wasn't talking about that but I was telling to kids like you're age and younger the to.

but I only can tell you to talk to you're mom&dad.

and I on boy like me and I don't know why? I'm sweet, cute, caring and cine and cinda mean to!
 
Joy50777 said:
well first of all I think that kids is not alowd to date until you are 17or18, and I know you wasn't talking about that but I was telling to kids like you're age and younger the to.

but I only can tell you to talk to you're mom&dad.

and I on boy like me and I don't know why? I'm sweet, cute, caring and cine and cinda mean to![/quote

im not gonna date till im like 16 for sure... and then like im not going to jump when sum dude asks me out. lol

to me if your not a little bit older then like whats the point? haha
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Well I'm sorry then :( I don't know what to say then because I never had a Boyfriend :(sorry I can't help you.
 
Really! Peachetty,you must be "Boy Crazy" since this thread is still rolling on in here! :p
 
noo im not really im not! lol i was just asking y guys bug me.... that was alll! lol

it really drives me a little nutty sumtimess! lol
 
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