A thread where men and women can be nice to each other - just for a change

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Miri

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So I won’t say which, what, when, how many, or who. But it often feels like
there is a spirit of disharmony and division on CC, trying to set men and women
against each other. Trying to cause hatred and distrust.

So....just for a change, a thread where men and women can be generous to each
other, be complimentary.
 
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Miri

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To my brothers in Christ some I know better than others.
Remember God loves you with an everlasting love.
He knows the plans He has for you.
He loves you with an everlasting love.
He is shaping and moulding you to prepare you for everlasting life.
(I am I the only one who gets mould and mold mixed up. Lol)

You are His warriors for His kingdom,
His messengers for spreading the gospel.
His father’s for raising His children.
His shepherds for looking after the sheep.
and so much more.

He sees the potential in you even if you do not see it yourself.
He sees your worries, your doubts, your trying times and He loves you
for your perseverance.
One day you will see Him face to face and He will tell you that you have
been a good and faithful servant and welcome you into eternity.

But for now be our brothers in Christ, with all that means and entails.
We are glad you are part of the family. ♥️

Your sisters in Christ
 
Josie223

Josie223

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Miri said:
So I won’t say which, what, when, how many, or who. But it often feels like
there is a spirit of disharmony and division on CC, trying to set men and women
against each other. Trying to cause hatred and distrust.

So....just for a change, a thread where men and women can be generous to each
other, be complimentary.
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Hi Miri,
How many nice people have responded,
What you are saying is correct. I guess people are afraid to be nice and get back at.
Also, they don't wish CC to be seen as a dating website
Its a place of fellowship & in a fellowship anything can happen.
I wish people could be nicer to each other no matter what
 
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noblenut

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Josie223 said:
Hi Miri,
How many nice people have responded,
What you are saying is correct. I guess people are afraid to be nice and get back at.
Also, they don't wish CC to be seen as a dating website
Its a place of fellowship & in a fellowship anything can happen.
I wish people could be nicer to each other no matter what
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i have noticed a bit of criticism on posts especially from non believers, but remember Jesus said not all of israel is israel, u just got to pick the good from the bad, also i have no probs with this becoming a dating website, christians need to find someone too, and most are taken at my local chapel
 
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Josie223

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noblenut said:
i have noticed a bit of criticism on posts especially from non believers, but remember Jesus said not all of israel is israel, u just got to pick the good from the bad, also i have no probs with this becoming a dating website, christians need to find someone too, and most are taken at my local chapel
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I totally agree with the point made here, if guys have found their partners at the local chapel fellowship, there shouldn't be a problem finding them in an online one. However that shouldn't be our sole reason coming for fellowship, if not one could really get thwarted at the end
 
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noblenut

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Josie223 said:
I totally agree with the point made here, if guys have found their partners at the local chapel fellowship, there shouldn't be a problem finding them in an online one. However that shouldn't be our sole reason coming for fellowship, if not one could really get thwarted at the end
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yes, i agree we should come here for knowledge and building each other up. but that's not to say we cant like someone and if they are willing to travel who's to say. i dont come here for that reason but i am open to it
 
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Lynx

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*Lynx sits on his haunches, scratches behind an ear with a hind claw and looks quizzical.

Personally I'm lost. I have no idea who was spreading dissension about whom, where. But I have found in such cases I probably don't want to know.
 
Josie223

Josie223

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noblenut said:
yes, i agree we should come here for knowledge and building each other up. but that's not to say we cant like someone and if they are willing to travel who's to say. i dont come here for that reason but i am open to it
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Agreed we are saying the same thing
 
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Josie223

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Lynx said:
*Lynx sits on his haunches, scratches behind an ear with a hind claw and looks quizzical.

Personally I'm lost. I have no idea who was spreading dissension about whom, where. But I have found in such cases I probably don't want to know.
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I don't think anyone spread anything about anyone
 
Solemateleft

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Nice Post Miri...
not sure who the instigators are (or might be), but for all our CC friends...
'don't hate - participate'...
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kindness begets kindness...
Do unto others - as you would have them do unto you...
Here's a compliment for starters:
Women are God's GREATEST Creation!!! ;)
 
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JustEli

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I have not noticed a problem between men and women here. To be honest, I really enjoy the fellowship with with you of the female persuasion..............
I may be biased though. Haha haha

In all fairness, some of the dudes are ok as well.
 
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Kojikun

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It's like that everywhere else too 😂 I agree getting along is key.
 
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To all the men of CC YOU are Sumbunny special !! God bless you all for your insight and words of encouragement.
 
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