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I can't stand those stupid leggings
if everyone and their uncle were wearing them, I'd be the only original person around
if everyone and their uncle were wearing them, I'd be the only original person around
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No,but there's a fine line. My hubby is 6'4,that alone causes attention. I wouldn't be pleased if he walked out the door with his shirt half buttoned. He wears a t-shirt under his buttoned up shirts,always has. But if he didn't we'd be having a come to Jesus moment. I wouldn't appreciate it.
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it's normal here too. sadly, seems the 250 lb women have cornered the market
oh I dress for my sweetie too. but I don't like other men staring at me....which has happened often but less as I get older...well the age of the men has changed
the best looks fail and when you are as young as you are...well...you don't think of it
I used to wear the skimpiest bikinis in public years back...but then everybody did
I will say I do not deliberately try to dress down
oh I dress for my sweetie too. but I don't like other men staring at me....which has happened often but less as I get older...well the age of the men has changed
the best looks fail and when you are as young as you are...well...you don't think of it
I used to wear the skimpiest bikinis in public years back...but then everybody did
I will say I do not deliberately try to dress down
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anyway, no I don't think a Christian woman should dress in such a way that men ogle her
and Abraham was pretty bothered by the attention paid his wife...seems that would be a normal response for someone who is a believer and not encouraging his wife to strut her stuff
non-Christians not so much of course
further, we are told not to dress in an exhibitionist type of way...but paranoia is not called for either...there are sects that insist women wear their hair in a tight bun and dresses helping to clean the dust.
some happy medium perhaps?
and Abraham was pretty bothered by the attention paid his wife...seems that would be a normal response for someone who is a believer and not encouraging his wife to strut her stuff
non-Christians not so much of course
further, we are told not to dress in an exhibitionist type of way...but paranoia is not called for either...there are sects that insist women wear their hair in a tight bun and dresses helping to clean the dust.
some happy medium perhaps?
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Rofl spent too long in the south. Funny story. Hubby used to work for Fed Ex and had to deliver to the,er,no other way to say it,porn store. I think the lady that ran it was sweet on him. So one day we were getting groceries and here she came,big,loud and proud. She headed straight for him. Then he introduced me as his wife. She backed off a bit and made a joke about her "job". Cracked me up because he was embarrassed. I haven't had a good chance to chat with her and invite her to church but we'll see. Hubby may stay home that day. rofl.
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another thing I don't really care for, are the pipe leg jeans. on anyone
or dogs. View attachment 194175
or dogs. View attachment 194175
Hahaha hilarious!! Why can't they get an in between? Skin tight or diaper butt. Come on people. There's customers between porn stars and prison gangs.
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it's normal here too. sadly, seems the 250 lb women have cornered the market
oh I dress for my sweetie too. but I don't like other men staring at me....which has happened often but less as I get older...well the age of the men has changed
the best looks fail and when you are as young as you are...well...you don't think of it
I used to wear the skimpiest bikinis in public years back...but then everybody did
I will say I do not deliberately try to dress down
oh I dress for my sweetie too. but I don't like other men staring at me....which has happened often but less as I get older...well the age of the men has changed
the best looks fail and when you are as young as you are...well...you don't think of it
I used to wear the skimpiest bikinis in public years back...but then everybody did
I will say I do not deliberately try to dress down
Funfact: the most scary thing I have ever seen, I saw in Mallorca when a man came in with a bright speedo (that guy was way over 60) and a belly as if he had 8 children... THAT was frightening...way more frightening than leggings
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another thing I don't really care for, are the pipe leg jeans. on anyone
or dogs. View attachment 194175
or dogs. View attachment 194175
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I think I come down the middle on this one. To me leggings are for two places, home relaxing or workout. If you want to wear them in public,wear a long shirt to cover yourself. I was so happy when long shirts came in. I've bought so many so when they go out again I'll have enough. I don't see any reason to show that particular body part off with skin tight clothes. And your wife ought to understand that. When I go out I ask my husband "is this too low cut,too tight?" He'll give me an honest opinion,which is what I'm asking for.
As I said in an earlier post this goes both ways. We've discussed it. Men wearing skinny jeans. I went to a concert with my hubby and my parents. I know the man that is head of the group. But since I saw them last they added a young man,probably in his late 20s early 30s. Handsome,tall young man,married. His pants were so tight it made me embarrassed for him. There was no way you couldn't notice and my mother who sat in the front row said it was far worse! Now I can't judge the young mans heart or intent. I can tell you this,if he showed up to my concert dressed like that we'd be taking a visit to Wal-Mart. I don't think you have to dress shabby. I've had complete strangers, women, compliment my clothes. Women of all ages. And it makes me think I've struck the right chord in dress.
Without being vulgar we have to take into account that women especially are all built differently and "endowed" differently. My sister is very slim and she can wear many things I could not because of body type. Something she can wear would look vulgar on me. So it takes a little bit of common sense. My dear departed grandmother use to say "you should dress as if you're meeting the Queen". Would you want your behind and chest hung out? No. You can dress with style and be modest.