Should a man pursue a woman? Or does it matter?

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BrotherMike

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I’m a shy guy! I have no problem pursuing if God laid it in my heart to do so.
 
cwizzle07

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BrotherMike said:
I’m a shy guy! I have no problem pursuing if God laid it in my heart to do so.
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Good to know! I think i would rather be pursued by a man than me doing the pursuing. I think it would make me feel like a woman. Not sure tho, that's just my guess as I've never been in the situation haha. Thanks for you're reply Mike!
 
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selfdissolving

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If he likes you and is confident, he will most definitely pursue you
 
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Stranger36147

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What I find funny is....

While it's usually the men that initiate a relationship, I hear women are usually the ones who end the relationship if they think it's not working out.

Ouch.
 
cwizzle07

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melita916 said:
Sure! He may say “wanna go out for some coffee?”

Actually idk. I wasn’t popular with the opposite sex so I don’t have advices. Lol
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lol!!! ok.
That's something i'm curious about. What happens after the guy pursues the girl, you know? Like what's the next step? I'll let you know if I find out lol!
 
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selfdissolving

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cwizzle07 said:
What then? Does he ask me out?
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yes he will! that's pretty much a guarantee if interest is mutual. either way he will continue to initiate conversation with you
 
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cwizzle07 said:
lol!!! ok.
That's something i'm curious about. What happens after the guy pursues the girl, you know? Like what's the next step? I'll let you know if I find out lol!
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in my experience, forming a relationship is a very organic process. as two people become more familiar with each other, the next step often begins to take shape in a way that you both can clearly recognize
 
cwizzle07

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selfdissolving said:
yes he will! that's pretty much a guarantee if interest is mutual. either way he will continue to initiate conversation with you
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Good to know... Thank you!
(Not saying im looking now lol just was curious about the "process")
 
JosephsDreams

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i think the way men and woman are wired as such that the man should pursue the woman...to a point.
 
zeroturbulence

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cwizzle07 said:
Ohhh good question...
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I think the point is that men are hunters, women are gatherers. (as this brilliantly illustrated scene demonstrates). :)



...but the guy painting on the wall, you gotta watchout for him. He sometimes runs around naked. :rolleyes:
 
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cwizzle07 said:
Awesome! Thanks for the resource. Did you ever see the old coronet videos? All about 50s style etiquette. Lol so good.
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I like them a lot! :love: A few are dated, but for the most part they still stand today as helpful. This is a good one...

 
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