Tough Love, or one might even call it "SHOCK GOSPEL" can come across as being quite repulsive, and cold to the "Y'all come to Jesus...PLEASE?" "Beggers for Jesus!" That "Churchianity" has "de-evolved" into!
Their "method, and tactics", it seems, stems from, "God doesn't NEED YOU!" "YOU, NEED God!" To the "demographic" "type of ground", in the different types of ground parable, that Jesus taught! Where the "thorns and weeds" have intertwined a person to such a degree, that the person, or persons, are not even visible! At which point? They no longer have "the ability" TO hear, let alone "respond!" And, are deemed, rightfully so? An ADVERSARY!