Lets compare stories...whther your parents are believers or not.
Apparently mine met through family friends, she was single, he was single and they both of their families kind of matchmaked them. My mum, from Hong Kong was visiting her sister who married a nzer chinese and she decided to do the same. Apparently dads parents wanted him to marry someone chinese so they could have a chinese daughter in law who would cook chinese food. To get parents off his back, he consented. Mum happened to be in the right place at the right time. She never went back to Hong Kong and got married here by proxy. Her parents werent at the wedding.
I always suspect she married so she get be away from them and live here.
I would like to believe they were 'in love' but it just sounds rather pragmatic to me. They had four children, including me and are still together, for better or for worse. Oh also they DID get married in church, even though both arent believers. A friend's father was a minister.
Apparently mine met through family friends, she was single, he was single and they both of their families kind of matchmaked them. My mum, from Hong Kong was visiting her sister who married a nzer chinese and she decided to do the same. Apparently dads parents wanted him to marry someone chinese so they could have a chinese daughter in law who would cook chinese food. To get parents off his back, he consented. Mum happened to be in the right place at the right time. She never went back to Hong Kong and got married here by proxy. Her parents werent at the wedding.
I always suspect she married so she get be away from them and live here.
I would like to believe they were 'in love' but it just sounds rather pragmatic to me. They had four children, including me and are still together, for better or for worse. Oh also they DID get married in church, even though both arent believers. A friend's father was a minister.
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