I know right, I don't know how to make my words ant more clear than I already have. I think your words are very clear as well man, but there is this disconnect that for some I believe Paul outlines in 1 Cor 2:
6 Yet among the mature we do impart wisdom, although it is not a wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are doomed to pass away. 7 But we impart a secret and hidden wisdom of God, which God decreed before the ages for our glory. 8 None of the rulers of this age understood this, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. 9 But, as it is written,
“What no eye has seen, nor ear heard,
nor the heart of man imagined,
what God has prepared for those who love him”—
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these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God. 11 For who knows a person’s thoughts except the spirit of that person, which is in him? So also no one comprehends the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. 12
Now we have received not the spirit of the world, but
the Spirit who is from God,
that we might understand the things
freely given us by God. 13 And we impart this in words not taught by human wisdom but
taught by the Spirit, interpreting spiritual truths to those who are spiritual.
This part is the real kicker and the one I'm most referring too.
14 The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and
he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned. 15 The spiritual person judges all things, but is himself to be judged by no one. 16 “For who has understood the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ.
This is the red alert in this "debate" or whatever, but I have spoken to eternally-gratefull about this topic before and understand the angle he is coming at it with a history around extreme legalism, and that he is very careful to make the distinction between works being "for" salvation and "because of" salvation. This is something Bud thinks is interchangeable, like you said just strait up making "works", or as I call it living in Jesus, a bad thing all together. As if Jesus came to punch our heaven ticket and we just go on as we were. NO that is powerless and insulting to the true and living God that not only condescended into His creation to lay down His life so that we might be reconciled to Him, but was also willing to put the wrath that the world was under on His only Son. This is how our God loves the world, and He CHANGES men, for real, on earth, here and now, all for His glory. As you well know.
Anyway brother I hope you have a great day, I pray you and your family be drawn closer everyday, and I truly pray that Budman and Milee777 specifically, are both greatly blessed in the way only our Creator can bless us and opened up to a whole new realm of truth no matter where our Father has them on their walk, in Jesus name. Amen