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blue_ladybug said:
Becca, I understand. My 2nd boyfriend, Thomas, was the love of my life. He went to prison for 10 years and I stayed with him through it all. Took phone calls, sent him money, wrote him 2 or 3 letters a day.. Ten years later, he gets out and about a week later, dumped me in hopes of getting back with one of his exes named Amanda.

I was heartbroken, cried all the time. Finally I asked God to take Thomas out of my head and heart. I threw away anything he'd ever given me, tossed all his letters and burned all his pictures. That did it for me, haven't thought about him since..
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I can't imagine how that must have felt... No wonder you're a tough lady... You know... The things you say about yourself.... I've gotten to the conclusion that you're a testimony bro the world.. really.... A survivor would be and understatement... Wish I could give ya gig rn, lol
 
LightBright said:
There's some things that just hurt more then other things it's something you should be happy you haven't experienced and pray you never do your a nice young lady I'd hate for you to be hurt like that....you should thank your parents for raising you the way they did it's ultimately for your good ok?
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I don't know...i think it'll make me socially awkward...with no experience...what if... I dunno...but i get your point and I'm thankful, but I'm just not sure...
 
becc said:
I can't imagine how that must have felt... No wonder you're a tough lady... You know... The things you say about yourself.... I've gotten to the conclusion that you're a testimony bro the world.. really.... A survivor would be and understatement... Wish I could give ya gig rn, lol
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That contributed greatly to my depression back then.. Go and read all my testimonies and tell me what a survivor I am.. lol
 
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blue_ladybug said:
That contributed greatly to my depression back then.. Go and read all my testimonies and tell me what a survivor I am.. lol
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I've tried to read them...but i end up crying i can't bring myself to read them fully...you went through a lot...and it not fair at all...and the way i've been raised up, i've gotta be grateful...shame on me if i'm not....
 
becc said:
I can't imagine how that must have felt... No wonder you're a tough lady... You know... The things you say about yourself.... I've gotten to the conclusion that you're a testimony bro the world.. really.... A survivor would be and understatement... Wish I could give ya gig rn, lol
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Ya know, I always refer to myself and others as a survivor. Too many call themselves a victim. I HATE that word. You're only a victim if you choose to let yourself be one.. General "you" and not you in specific.. lol
 
Gracie_14 said:
I don't know...i think it'll make me socially awkward...with no experience...what if... I dunno...but i get your point and I'm thankful, but I'm just not sure...
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Yea understandable but you can learn to be social you can't fix mistakes you make you can't go back in time and fix the past so it's not as bad as you think just try to do what you can with your life and be content with your privileges and such eventually you won't have to worry about all that stuff cx
 
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Gracie_14 said:
I've tried to read them...but i end up crying i can't bring myself to read them fully...you went through a lot...and it not fair at all...and the way i've been raised up, i've gotta be grateful...shame on me if i'm not....
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Crying is therapeutic, Gracie. :) And life isn't fair. It's not supposed to be fair.. It's how well or badly we deal with it that matters..
 
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LightBright said:
Yea understandable but you can learn to be social you can't fix mistakes you make you can't go back in time and fix the past so it's not as bad as you think just try to do what you can with your life and be content with your privileges and such eventually you won't have to worry about all that stuff cx
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You're very right there. Sigh...contentment...that's what i needed to hear...which it was easier done that said....
 
becc said:
I was never romantically involved with the 2 guys I dated and the third one I used to love, sigh... But I'm still broken... I don't think anyone would understand...
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]well becc anyone who's broken up would my last gf was a psycho but I did indeed love her. But in the end it was for the best because well she was a psycho lol although can't say I was better at the time probably worse lol
 
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Kojikun said:
]well becc anyone who's broken up would my last gf was a psycho but I did indeed love her. But in the end it was for the best because well she was a psycho lol although can't say I was better at the time probably worse lol
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But you not a psycho.. just a cherry blossom obsessed weirdoh.. lol
 
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