Very good summary, Charti. The Two Great Commandments are in both the Old and New Testaments, and all of the commandments in the Bible relate to either of them. The Ten Commandments can be divided into 2 groups because of that fact. Why don't we have to memorize the New Testament commandments?
Also most Christian church attendees don't actually understand or know agape love and 98% of the USA couples shouldn't have got married because they married for selfish reasons: for phileo and eros love or status improvement or for more money to use. Most pastors and justices of the peace do not teach couples about the Biblical requirements for a God-pleasing marriage.
I pray frequently for what is needed a lot more in the above in your posting and what I have posted to be done. Much repentance especially for the Christian leaders. But I am not holding my breath for such to happen. Religious routines and lack of careful Bible teaching and denominational/Catholic/cult prejudices dominates. denominational/Catholic/cult prejudices. How can God keep patient much longer? Please join with me daily in praying for the needed church reforms.
I just posted this in another site:
I meant that the Golden Rule can be considered not spiritual and could be even wrongly considered psychological. But the indicated
Romans 8 and
Galatians 5:1-6:10 indicate living according to the Holy Spirit are completely the right spiritual uses of time.
In regards to forgiveness--
Luke 17:3
“Take heed to yourselves:
If your brother [or sister] trespass against you,
rebuke him [or her];
and if he [or she] repents,
forgive him [or her].”
We as humans can't forget wrongs done against us, but we still should pray for those who have done wrong against us that they will become sensitive to the Holy Spirit convictions about their wrongs and make the appropriate confessions and changes to Christ-likeness. Repentance to righteousness is a major theme in the Bible along with Divine Love and Divine forgiveness and Divine compassion.
But Jesus Christ also commanded us to agapè love our enemies.
True Christians should be going for God's best in relating with all others.
So agapè is for spouses on down to even our enemies.
Think of a 10-1 scale:
10-9 love for enemies (with no praying for bad for them),
8-7 love for acquaintances at public places,
6-4 for best friends and relatives,
3-1 for Christian spouse.
(a) for forgiving--
Box
Note: The "1--" and "2--" items are what I considered the best.