If you’re planning to go on a date with someone special, who should pay for it?

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Who should pay for the date?

  • The woman should pay.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • The man should pay.

    Votes: 32 54.2%

  • Both should share paying for expenses.

    Votes: 7 11.9%

  • Each should pay for their own expenses.

    Votes: 4 6.8%

  • Other, please state.

    Votes: 16 27.1%
  • Total voters
    59
Kaps89 said:
Ha no I didn't. I went on a date to a cat cafe and also just out for coffee. But I stopped dating because I needed to work on myself a bit. Only special people get the fish and chip treatment :)

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Fair enough, my delima now is whether NZ fish n chips is better than British fish n chips.
 
Mel85 said:
Fair enough, my delima now is whether NZ fish n chips is better than British fish n chips.
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Well that's just preposterous!!! I'm not flying to NZ to buy you fish and chips. It's our national dish and we're very good at it. :eek:. Quite frankly I'm insulted.


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Kaps89 said:
Well that's just preposterous!!! I'm not flying to NZ to buy you fish and chips. It's our national dish and we're very good at it. :eek:. Quite frankly I'm insulted.


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Funny that, I thought bangers & mash was🤣

Ps I can make my own fish and chips :)
 
Mel85 said:
Funny that, I thought bangers & mash was🤣

Ps I can make my own fish and chips :)
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I think we're confused about our national dish. It's one of the following:

  • Roast dinner
  • English breakfast
  • Fish and chips
  • Curry. Not proper curry. British curry. Like a tikka masala.
We're just very confused in general atm. :LOL: Well I'm sure you can but sometimes it's nice to be cooked for. Or to pay someone else to cook.

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Kaps89 said:
I think we're confused about our national dish. It's one of the following:

  • Roast dinner
  • English breakfast
  • Fish and chips
  • Curry. Not proper curry. British curry. Like a tikka masala.
We're just very confused in general atm. :LOL: Well I'm sure you can but sometimes it's nice to be cooked for. Or to pay someone else to cook.

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Bullet points! Love that 👍🏽👍🏽

And I love butter chicken. And yes, it’s nice to have someone cook for ya. If my date offered to cook, Id still help in anyway I could.
 
Mel85 said:
Bullet points! Love that 👍🏽👍🏽

And I love butter chicken. And yes, it’s nice to have someone cook for ya. If my date offered to cook, Id still help in anyway I could.
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Well I'm glad you enjoyed them. Hmm pretty sure I've made butter chicken before. What date would you feel comfortable going to a guys house for dinner? Nah sorry you'd be banned from the kitchen. You can help with the washing up after if you really must. ;)

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Kaps89 said:
Well I'm glad you enjoyed them. Hmm pretty sure I've made butter chicken before. What date would you feel comfortable going to a guys house for dinner? Nah sorry you'd be banned from the kitchen. You can help with the washing up after if you really must. ;)

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Tbh, I wouldn’t feel comfortable going to a guys house on a date, if it got to a stage where we were a couple who been together for a couple of months then yes I would - and of course washing up would come with prepping dinner :)
 
Mel85 said:
Tbh, I wouldn’t feel comfortable going to a guys house on a date, if it got to a stage where we were a couple who been together for a couple of months then yes I would - and of course washing up would come with prepping dinner :)
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Nah I also wouldn't go to a girl's house unless we ended up as a couple because there's always a slight chance I'd wake up in a seedy motel with some vital internal organ missing. It's an irrational fear but a fear none the less. Excellent. Well if we're ever I'm each others respective countries we can argue about fish and chips and washing up. :giggle:

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The man should pursue, the man should pay. Once the relationship is a mutual agreement, the woman should offer to pay and let the man decide if that's ok with him... I'd imagine it would be lol.
 
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I think ,if both known each other for 2 or 3 months already and want to go in a special date ,they should atleast pay for own expenses ,i mean we are on a era were both genders is earning for themselves,,and for my ladies out there we are strong independent woman
 
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