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😭 it's a guyyyyyyy I'm gonna change it now lol. I got called a girl IRL too so yea......I don't know whyyyy. I probably won't put a girl on my profile pic though or maybe i should 
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I had long hair and lashes xD not only that but i just had a feminine face, a "baby face" or whatevs. Since getting locs i haven't been called a girl really though, the neighbors were apparently hitting on me, i thought they were talking about my sisters tho??? So yea ig at a distance i still look like a female. I don't get how they got me mixed up with a girl though I've come out shirtless a couple times and my chest isn't shaped in a way that they could even look like boobs it makes no sense.... sometimes i think people do it on purpose to make me mad lol. I do have a flirtatious personality though so maybe i kinda act like a girl???
sometimes i think people do it on purpose to make me mad lol. I do have a flirtatious personality though so maybe i kinda act like a girl???-
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I had long hair and lashes xD not only that but i just had a feminine face, a "baby face" or whatevs. Since getting locs i haven't been called a girl really though, the neighbors were apparently hitting on me, i thought they were talking about my sisters tho??? So yea ig at a distance i still look like a female. I don't get how they got me mixed up with a girl though I've come out shirtless a couple times and my chest isn't shaped in a way that they could even look like boobs it makes no sense.... sometimes i think people do it on purpose to make me mad lol. I do have a flirtatious personality though so maybe i kinda act like a girl???
sometimes i think people do it on purpose to make me mad lol. I do have a flirtatious personality though so maybe i kinda act like a girl???
It was terrible xD and no guys don't go through this at allllll. Me and my lil bro looked super girly in like elementary though ugh, there's pictures where my sisters put us in dresses when we were like 5 or something yea.....they suck. And i have decent muscles and stuff i don't get it! Like I'd be a pretty ripped female, a lot of people think I'm bi or gay too cuz, apparently, i dress well??? I should just stop caring about clothes and my hair maybe people will think I'm a dude then. A straight one lol.
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Hehehehehhe... I feel your situ right now man... Lol... I knew it had to be from baby life, lol.. Maybe the dresses and the stuff they did on u guys grew on ya? Lol.. There was a movie i saw.. this dude from birth was dressed as a girl and so.. The parents dressed him as a girl.. even till toddler age, lol.. I think they wanted a girl and said to make use of time possible before the child knew he was a boy, lol....Well do u talk like a guy? Hold up.... You're 1718 and people still mistake you for a girl!!!? What the! lol... That has to be a news breaker... Sorry dude, just can't help it, lol... What about where u work? Hold up! Do girls make fun of you?
I don't get called a girl much anymore except from fairly far away since i have a goatee kinda thing growing in, i still have a lot of gay guys approach me tho it's kinda weird....and idk like a guy these days should talk about how many chicks he's smashed and smoking weed but being a Christian i don't talk about that stuff so to society ig i don't talk like a guy. Either way my voice is pretty light, like it's not deep at all lol my lil bro has a deeper voice then i do xD. I blame that on the fact i can sing but that's another thing. I mean I say like a lot but i still say dude and stuff IDK. And i work at UPS, i lift boxes for a living like not a girly job at all. And no...not really girls don't make fun of me, not that i know of, they've asked me if i liked girls tho......I'm not like super cute or nothin but girls aren't usually mean to me lets say that. I don't really talk to girls much anymore though I'd rather be around tons of women, it's not exactly the wisest thing especially factoring in my past so yea i tend not to hang out with girls IRL unless it's family. My sisters say i look like "an anime guy" which isn't exactly the manliest image soooo ye. Apparently every anine guy with long hair looks like a girl too .
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I don't get called a girl much anymore except from fairly far away since i have a goatee kinda thing growing in, i still have a lot of gay guys approach me tho it's kinda weird....and idk like a guy these days should talk about how many chicks he's smashed and smoking weed but being a Christian i don't talk about that stuff so to society ig i don't talk like a guy. Either way my voice is pretty light, like it's not deep at all lol my lil bro has a deeper voice then i do xD. I blame that on the fact i can sing but that's another thing. I mean I say like a lot but i still say dude and stuff IDK. And i work at UPS, i lift boxes for a living like not a girly job at all. And no...not really girls don't make fun of me, not that i know of, they've asked me if i liked girls tho......I'm not like super cute or nothin but girls aren't usually mean to me lets say that. I don't really talk to girls much anymore though I'd rather be around tons of women, it's not exactly the wisest thing especially factoring in my past so yea i tend not to hang out with girls IRL unless it's family. My sisters say i look like "an anime guy" which isn't exactly the manliest image soooo ye. Apparently every anine guy with long hair looks like a girl too .
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I'm NOT cutting my hair. My hair was only cut once when was in middle school because my step dad called me gay and he forced me to get it cut. My hair was super long then, when it was straightened it was down to my lower back. Now that i have locs I'm doing much better plus on a normal day people think I'm like a broke dude cuz i wear boots and and worn clothes cuz i work in a dirty facility all day. The only times I have to worry about being called a girl is when I'm like taking the trash out in the morning or something, even then they'd have to be at a distance. I just don't like "gay" guys hitting on me makes me wanna punch people like WHY ME BRUH? I'm way too nice to be mean though so I try not to be a jerk and end up being wayyy too nice so that probably doesn't help. In a way it's kinda good girls don't always think I'm straight cuz now i don't have to worry about turning any girls down so that's cool. There was this one girl in high school who liked me i couldn't bring myself to tell her no so i kinda just tried to be stupid so she'd stop liking me but it didn't work.... It's hard telling girls no if i make a girl cry I'll cry then we'll both be crying lol. I just kinda act super childish in public so everyone thinks I'm extremely immature so nobody talks to be about anything inappropriate, and nobody somehow ends up liking me. It's kinda hard to like someone who acts like a kid especially if it's a guy so yea I'm all good. Nobody who knows me thinks I'm anything like a girl, if they think I'm "bi" it's cuz i don't talk about girls and haven't had a girlfriend in forever. Speaking of that my step dad keeps badgering me about girls all the time! He's like "where ya women at?" And im like"......." And he's like "how do you not have a girlfriend people are gonna think you're gay!" And I'm like "...but I'm not......" Even my family makes abstinence difficult!
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Lol... Funny story... If only I was in that country... I would changed peoples perspective of girls... I think childishness is common for downright anime lovers... Just an observation though.. nothing really proved... Why won't u get your hair cut?give yourself a more manlier look dude... "Why me bruh?" Killed me, lol
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I don't get called a girl much anymore except from fairly far away since i have a goatee kinda thing growing in, i still have a lot of gay guys approach me tho it's kinda weird....and idk like a guy these days should talk about how many chicks he's smashed and smoking weed but being a Christian i don't talk about that stuff so to society ig i don't talk like a guy. Either way my voice is pretty light, like it's not deep at all lol my lil bro has a deeper voice then i do xD. I blame that on the fact i can sing but that's another thing. I mean I say like a lot but i still say dude and stuff IDK. And i work at UPS, i lift boxes for a living like not a girly job at all. And no...not really girls don't make fun of me, not that i know of, they've asked me if i liked girls tho......I'm not like super cute or nothin but girls aren't usually mean to me lets say that. I don't really talk to girls much anymore though I'd rather be around tons of women, it's not exactly the wisest thing especially factoring in my past so yea i tend not to hang out with girls IRL unless it's family. My sisters say i look like "an anime guy" which isn't exactly the manliest image soooo ye. Apparently every anine guy with long hair looks like a girl too .
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if you ever want to talk, be free to send me a pm....or if you need any sort of encouragement...the culture these days... the demasculinization of men...gets me so upset.....
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@LightBright awww, you have locks? as in dreadlocks? that's super cool