do you really think that Jesus would say love others as yourself and even love your enemies in some scriptures and then turn around and say hate your mother, father, husbands, wives etc. and mean that literally????
But until the Spirit of truth
made it known to me I was like you and had my doubts.
When you love your enemy or your neighbor
you can let them go to forsake all and pick up your cross and follow Jesus.
But when you love your life or your mother, father, husbands, wives,children
you will not let them go you will hold on to them and will not forsake all.
Jesus knew to be with God on the new earth you had to forsake
it all in this world or you would not make it.
Therefore He commanded them who loved Him
If any man come to me,
and hate not his father,
and mother,
and wife,
and children,
and brethren,
and sisters,
yea, and his own life also,
he cannot be my disciple.