How is it a 'just' sentence when the sinner has no opportunity to respond to the Gospel. You god has blocked his ability to come to the cross. That's not just at all. That's a crime.
At least when a judge sentences someone to jail, there is reasonable proof that he acted with criminal intent. The unelected sinner doesn't get that chance at all.
I believe you are coming under conviction and seeing the injustice of your god.
You have the false view of fair and grace, my friend. In your view, if God calls one, He must call all or He is not fair. If God was fair, He would send everyone of us to hell. We deserved hell being law breakers. If someone murders someone, fairness demands justice for that crime. We were breakers of God's Law and if He dealt with us with fairness, we would all be in hell. Now, if God has to call everybody without exception, then it becomes an obligation and not grace. For grace to truly be grace, it must be free.