Hello, friend. You are to be commended for your desire to want to uphold others in your prayers. It is a very real, extremely important ministry to which the Lord has called you. No detail of our lives, no concern about our loved ones, can ever escape God’s notice, and I believe He is pleased when we bring even the smallest of our needs to Him in prayer. In fact, He instructs us to do so: “In everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God” (Philippians 4:6).
Also, I’m sorry to hear about your nightmares. I’m praying, asking God to surround you with His love, care and protection. May He give you wisdom and help you to sleep well in the days ahead.