Why do people belong to denominations in which they don't believe in?

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Mel85

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I started the string about are children born saved because many denominations require childhood baptisims and many teach that all are born with the sins of Adam and Eve upon them but I got bored when no one stepped up to the plate to defend this herisy. My next logical question is why do people belong to denominations that they don't believe in. Do they think it's better to pretend they believe lies which is a lie too, than nothing at all? I'm a born again, spirit filled hardcore bible believing Christian but I'd rather be an agnostic who believes there might be a God than a fake who pretends to believe in something they really do not. Is belonging to a religion they don't believe in better than admitting they really don't know what to believe? Pretending to believe a lie is a lie.
I can’t answer for others, but I go to church for God and not man.
 
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I am glad you asked that question: "Is there a law missing by which we could know God more adequately?"

This is not a law that is "missing", inasmuch as "omitting!"

And, is not so much a "law", as a "command!"

"Press ON!" "To the "High CALLING of God!" "IN Christ Jesus, our Lord and Savior!"

So many people that have believed and accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, "act/feel/behave" as if they have reached their "destination!"

Nay! It is, or should be anyway, the "ONLY, and Correct" "Beginning!" TO, a "more adequate" and "fruitful" knowing of God!

"Fellow Laborers", are not only other "people", involved in the "harvesting" process. There are also "angels, and Priests of God, and Priests of the Most High God", that "push, manipulate, separate, divide," our "inner spiritual being", to those "portions of God", to which our very complex spiritual/fleshly "attributes, or aspects" belong, or have their "House" in. (the Father's House....Many mansions, or "places of abidance!") To which Jesus "Went, to PREPARE!"....NOT FINISH! The believer, MUST "expend the effort/s" necessary (commanded), in the "Pressings ON!"

Sounds pretty "simple" don't it? And? It is! Which is probably the "why" so many people, oft times "cease" from their own personal "pressing on!" They have mistakenly "welded" simplicity, with "degree of difficulty!"
Like any relationship when people stop doing the work and do not press on there can be no mutual fruit.

The Holy Spirit describes that as neither being hot on fire for the lord or so cold that he must send us a spirit of repentance to ease ourselves . lest he vomit us from his mouth like those who have "no faith" .

For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,
But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries .Hebrews 10 :26=27

It will not devour those he calls to repentance.
 
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ROTFL
I have had many disagreements with you over only using the Bible and not any Bible helpers. So don't try that concept on me. Went round and round with you on several issues and agreed with you on others.

I defy you to find anything non Biblical about the Presbyterian PCA. The only thing you might disagree with is the Reformed view of scriptures. I belong to that gospel preaching denomination and have been an elder in one of the churches.

You spout off without knowing what you are talking about!!

PS: I am Reformed to the bone. Backed up by scripture!! Presbyterian is Reformed view of scripture.
Sure...................
 

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Sure...................
Obviously you are unable to find anything unscriptual with that denomination or didn't bother to find out. Just more of your fabrications.

The following documents are the standards of the Reformed theology.
Westminster Confession
Canons of dort

Refute them!!
Both having scripture in them.
 
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Obviously you are unable to find anything unscriptual with that denomination or didn't bother to find out. Just more of your fabrications.

The following documents are the standards of the Reformed theology.
Westminster Confession
Canons of dort

Refute them!!
Both having scripture in them.
Or maybe I am choosing to ignore your blather..........10 to 1 that is the actual reason for my previous response......
 

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Or maybe I am choosing to ignore your blather..........10 to 1 that is the actual reason for my previous response......
More avoiding the issue. Typical of a closed minded person!! Can't refute it can you. Anything other than your views is bogus.
 

NayborBear

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Like any relationship when people stop doing the work and do not press on there can be no mutual fruit.

The Holy Spirit describes that as neither being hot on fire for the lord or so cold that he must send us a spirit of repentance to ease ourselves . lest he vomit us from his mouth like those who have "no faith" .

For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,
But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries .Hebrews 10 :26=27

It will not devour those he calls to repentance.

There you go, the making of "socialistic religious philosophies." Mutual Fruit? Egadz man! What you are describing is what today's churches have become!

"Because I don't have such and such "Spiritual Gift", YOU, can't have it either? And so, goes the downwards spiral of Apostasy! A man's "ego", whether separately, or collectively, makes for some "mighty STRANGE bedfellows!" This is rather "expected" OF the world! Indeed! It is what (supposedly) we as Christ Men, are (supposedly) taught, from the scriptures, and in turn, strive and teach our children to fight and strive against!

What "happens?", and what has happened over the course of many years, is that "parishioners", tend to put, or lay each one of their "personal" burdens, in the hands of their preacher, pastor, priest, bishop, etc. etc., like they are leaving them at the "foot of the Cross of Christ! Which, is agreeably, what one is supposed to do when becoming a Christian!

What has happened, and I believe continues to occur, is that now, this "parishioner", feeling the liberty, that comes from "being set free in Christ", goes out running round to find even more burdens, to "lay" at the feet of their pastor, etc. Therefore, NEVER growing, or maturing in the Spirit, and NEVER "Picking UP" their own cross/es! And, much like playing chess with a pigeon? Which lands on the board, knocks over all the pieces, poops on the board, and struts around "acting" like it has WON The Game!

NOTHING, Could be FURTHER From the TRUTH!

So let's talk about "cesessionism, inerrancy, rapture, once saved always saved." The likes of which, any of these "God in a box", doctrines of men, when encountered by goodly men of God, would walk out of such an assemblage, in saddened amazement, remarking: "Just WHAT GOD, or WHOSE god, are these people worshiping!" Nothing short of what the children of Israel done at the foot of Mt. Sinai! Or, the "making of a god in an image, that seems/FEELS right, in their own eyes, and worshiping THAT!"

The good news is, this is NOTHING NEW! The bad news is, it's NOT the WAY, nor the TRUTH, nor, the LIFE! Nor, is it the WAY TO the Father!

Matthew 7:14

Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.
 

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There you go, the making of "socialistic religious philosophies." Mutual Fruit? Egadz man! What you are describing is what today's churches have become!

"Because I don't have such and such "Spiritual Gift", YOU, can't have it either? And so, goes the downwards spiral of Apostasy! A man's "ego", whether separately, or collectively, makes for some "mighty STRANGE bedfellows!" This is rather "expected" OF the world! Indeed! It is what (supposedly) we as Christ Men, are (supposedly) taught, from the scriptures, and in turn, strive and teach our children to fight and strive against!

What "happens?", and what has happened over the course of many years, is that "parishioners", tend to put, or lay each one of their "personal" burdens, in the hands of their preacher, pastor, priest, bishop, etc. etc., like they are leaving them at the "foot of the Cross of Christ! Which, is agreeably, what one is supposed to do when becoming a Christian!

What has happened, and I believe continues to occur, is that now, this "parishioner", feeling the liberty, that comes from "being set free in Christ", goes out running round to find even more burdens, to "lay" at the feet of their pastor, etc. Therefore, NEVER growing, or maturing in the Spirit, and NEVER "Picking UP" their own cross/es! And, much like playing chess with a pigeon? Which lands on the board, knocks over all the pieces, poops on the board, and struts around "acting" like it has WON The Game!

NOTHING, Could be FURTHER From the TRUTH!

So let's talk about "cesessionism, inerrancy, rapture, once saved always saved." The likes of which, any of these "God in a box", doctrines of men, when encountered by goodly men of God, would walk out of such an assemblage, in saddened amazement, remarking: "Just WHAT GOD, or WHOSE god, are these people worshiping!" Nothing short of what the children of Israel done at the foot of Mt. Sinai! Or, the "making of a god in an image, that seems/FEELS right, in their own eyes, and worshiping THAT!"

The good news is, this is NOTHING NEW! The bad news is, it's NOT the WAY, nor the TRUTH, nor, the LIFE! Nor, is it the WAY TO the Father!

Matthew 7:14

Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.
There are good gospel preaching churches. The sub denominations and independent churches still preach the gospel. Each denomination has its distinctives they adhere to. I have yet find a church I totally agree with ALL of the standards. I am Reformed in my view and have been an elder and deacon in 3 Reformed theology churches. Moved twice by my ompany.
 

NayborBear

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There are good gospel preaching churches. The sub denominations and independent churches still preach the gospel. Each denomination has its distinctives they adhere to. I have yet find a church I totally agree with ALL of the standards. I am Reformed in my view and have been an elder and deacon in 3 Reformed theology churches. Moved twice by my ompany.

Yeah! I've read your "credentials", several times, in your postings. And yet, have not seen much, if any illumination's from your responses, save many a reference to the orthodox prebster's and the westminster confession of faith. Both of which, I find quite "suitable", in classifying as perpetuating, and carrying on "Christianity In Name ONLY." Which? I suppose, is "well enough", for some. And, indeed, may be well enough for you as well! Of which the "boa constrictor tactics" which are become evident, are more telling of a more "sinister nature", in a continual "oppression" of Light! And, one's "seeking" of more light, to grow, then the "tea asher" writhes around like such a snake is wont to do in its hiding from, yet, deflecting light onto itself, in the eyes of men! As the "instead of Christ", and yea, "instead of God", are so beholden to! Go "this way", or that way, instead! Tis much easier, with a lot less personal accountability!

But, seeing how this prebster confession of faith, precludes any other writings, including 2 of which I am familiar with, and are mentioned in the Bible. Enoch, and Jasher, and others of what has been considered in the eyes of men, as "non-inspired" and so, Apocraphal written records, to be so null and non effectual, in furthering one's own Spiritual maturing, has in fact, caused such "Spiritual Atrophy", that it causes, or should cause little wonder, as to the Famine of the END Times. Where, as well as when, the Word of God, has become "void!" It was true back then? It's true today!

Thank GOD.....FOR HIS REMNANT!

Ok....Your turn! :)
 

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Yeah! I've read your "credentials", several times, in your postings. And yet, have not seen much, if any illumination's from your responses, save many a reference to the orthodox prebster's and the westminster confession of faith. Both of which, I find quite "suitable", in classifying as perpetuating, and carrying on "Christianity In Name ONLY." Which? I suppose, is "well enough", for some. And, indeed, may be well enough for you as well! Of which the "boa constrictor tactics" which are become evident, are more telling of a more "sinister nature", in a continual "oppression" of Light! And, one's "seeking" of more light, to grow, then the "tea asher" writhes around like such a snake is wont to do in its hiding from, yet, deflecting light onto itself, in the eyes of men! As the "instead of Christ", and yea, "instead of God", are so beholden to! Go "this way", or that way, instead! Tis much easier, with a lot less personal accountability!

But, seeing how this prebster confession of faith, precludes any other writings, including 2 of which I am familiar with, and are mentioned in the Bible. Enoch, and Jasher, and others of what has been considered in the eyes of men, as "non-inspired" and so, Apocraphal written records, to be so null and non effectual, in furthering one's own Spiritual maturing, has in fact, caused such "Spiritual Atrophy", that it causes, or should cause little wonder, as to the Famine of the END Times. Where, as well as when, the Word of God, has become "void!" It was true back then? It's true today!

Thank GOD.....FOR HIS REMNANT!

Ok....Your turn! :)
So you have disagreements with them. I defy you to put forward an issue in theology outside of the Apostles Creed that plenty of people will not disagree with. Everything outside it was to agree to disagree. If you fail to understand that concept then please tell me why there are so many gospel preaching denominations. Please explain to me how to find the one and only Biblical one. Keep in mind that all have doctrinal documents stating their beliefs with scripture in them proving their view is Biblical. For starters who is correct, Calvinism or Armenian. Many denominations adhere to one of or the other with more partially somewhere between them. The divisions were in the early church and was written about by the early elders. Almost 2000 years of disagreements. Please explain why!!! If you research Calvinism and Armenianism as I recently did there is tons of documentation about their views with lots of scripture backing up their beliefs while attacking the the opposing beliefs.
 

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Addendum
Please explain to this forum what is not Biblical about the Canons of Dort and the Westminster Confession. Specifics please. Both make statements with scripture references. The same is true of all denominations. Pick on some other denominations. Their web site usually refers to their doctrinal statements. Talk is cheap. Action is required to back up your assertions. Waiting to hear from you. Probably going to be a long wait.
 

NayborBear

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So you have disagreements with them. I defy you to put forward an issue in theology outside of the Apostles Creed that plenty of people will not disagree with. Everything outside it was to agree to disagree. If you fail to understand that concept then please tell me why there are so many gospel preaching denominations. Please explain to me how to find the one and only Biblical one. Keep in mind that all have doctrinal documents stating their beliefs with scripture in them proving their view is Biblical. For starters who is correct, Calvinism or Armenian. Many denominations adhere to one of or the other with more partially somewhere between them. The divisions were in the early church and was written about by the early elders. Almost 2000 years of disagreements. Please explain why!!! If you research Calvinism and Armenianism as I recently did there is tons of documentation about their views with lots of scripture backing up their beliefs while attacking the the opposing beliefs.

I know it's tough man! Realizing that everything you thought was true concerning spiritual maturity, is wrong!

It's rather understandable though, considering such adherents to traditions of men "creeds", or con/pro/fessions of faith, do "little" more then the carrying on the name, of God, and Christ. Yet, do little "in the trenches" of actual spiritual warfare against "The Rebellion!" Which is an event that in your eyes, has not even happened yet!

Yeah? Tis pretty humbling, isn't it? When one has been CONVICTED!

If these verses from the "horse's mouth", so to speak, and not from some traditions of men, creed, or con/pro/fession of faith, don't give you cause to question, or wonder just what you have been taught, or led to be pursuaded to believe?


Matthew 7
21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

Then nothing I can say in refuting such, albeit, noble and honorable efforts in carrying on the NAME, is going to help you in overcoming! God can! Should ya ask Him! I can't! Tis above my pay grade! ;)
 

Nehemiah6

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Please explain to this forum what is not Biblical about the Canons of Dort and the Westminster Confession.
We can take just one example from the Westminster Confession. God does NOT decree some for salvation and others for damnation. Indeed the whole Calvinistic distortion of the Gospel is found in the Westminster Confession. The same would apply to the Canons of Dort.
 

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I know it's tough man! Realizing that everything you thought was true concerning spiritual maturity, is wrong!

It's rather understandable though, considering such adherents to traditions of men "creeds", or con/pro/fessions of faith, do "little" more then the carrying on the name, of God, and Christ. Yet, do little "in the trenches" of actual spiritual warfare against "The Rebellion!" Which is an event that in your eyes, has not even happened yet!

Yeah? Tis pretty humbling, isn't it? When one has been CONVICTED!

If these verses from the "horse's mouth", so to speak, and not from some traditions of men, creed, or con/pro/fession of faith, don't give you cause to question, or wonder just what you have been taught, or led to be pursuaded to believe?


Matthew 7
21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

Then nothing I can say in refuting such, albeit, noble and honorable efforts in carrying on the NAME, is going to help you in overcoming! God can! Should ya ask Him! I can't! Tis above my pay grade! ;)
I am saved by grace through faith in Jesus. That is my testimony. I was 6 years old when baptized. I never knew anything but God and Jesus. My career was great. I had an instinct for electronics, computers and software. I continually blew away my coworkers with my insight. I lay that ability to God. I didn't even understand how I could do those things. I looked at the schematic for a while and then used the scope on a few places and solved the problem. Others had to go step by step. I worked with one tech on a problem and did that and he couldn't believe it so he went step by step and found I was correct. That ability had to be a gift from God.
 

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We can take just one example from the Westminster Confession. God does NOT decree some for salvation and others for damnation. Indeed the whole Calvinistic distortion of the Gospel is found in the Westminster Confession. The same would apply to the Canons of Dort.
ROTFL
It is obvious to the casual observer that you are an Armenian. You are looking at Calvinist aka Reformed documents. Did you bother to read the associated scripture? From a Calvinist perspective the Armenian documents would be looked at the same way, it is agree to disagree outside of the Apostles Creed. This is outside that document. According to your view all churches preaching the gospel in Reformed theology churches are denying the Bible. Guess what? The Calvinist view of Armenianism is the same to them. This is why the early elders created the Roman creeds and updated it to the Apostles Creed by 312. Everything outside the creed was to agree to disagree. There were many differences of opinion back then. Obviously you don't know the early church history. I went round and round about issues and did a lot of research. Recently researched in depth the Quinquarticular Controversy. Look it up and learn something. Look at all of the diverse gospel preaching denominations an all sides of this and other issues outside of the Apostles Creed. Are you claiming you are right and all the others are wrong? At 73 I have learned the hard way not to be so judgmental.
 

Nehemiah6

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It is obvious to the casual observer that you are an Armenian.
Sorry, but I am not Arminian either. I simply take the Bible for what it says, rather than filter it through Calvinism or Arminianism.

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE THAT GOD WOULD ELECT SOME FOR SALVATION AND OTHERS FOR DAMNATION .

That would violate His character as well as His Gospel.
 

JohnRH

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I started the string about are children born saved because many denominations require childhood baptisims and many teach that all are born with the sins of Adam and Eve upon them but I got bored when no one stepped up to the plate to defend this herisy. My next logical question is why do people belong to denominations that they don't believe in. Do they think it's better to pretend they believe lies which is a lie too, than nothing at all? I'm a born again, spirit filled hardcore bible believing Christian but I'd rather be an agnostic who believes there might be a God than a fake who pretends to believe in something they really do not. Is belonging to a religion they don't believe in better than admitting they really don't know what to believe? Pretending to believe a lie is a lie.
I think the same thing happens in independent churches too. Part of it has to do with growing up in a church; the adults are like aunts & uncles and your friends at church are like cousins. You love them almost like family. It's hard to break off. A church is often partly right about what they believe and practice and if you're not as versed in Scripture as them, you feel like you're rebelling against God if you don't conform.

The blind man in John 9 got cast out of the synagogue for being honest about his beliefs and standing up to his religious leaders when he thought they were in error. His parents weren't that straight-forward with them. But it was him that Jesus sought out afterwards. Although he had to pay a price, I doubt he ever regretted not faking it. :)