This gave me an idea
Go on a cruise, get married and have the wedding and honeymoon combined with all our friends and family.
I pick a cruise sailing December 23rd. That would be a real life shipping! Who is available to get married at Christmas? I guess we could have multiple weddings when we are at it. Will save some money, too.
(No kidding. I have already made plans for the cruise. The wedding will just be a minor add to the budget)