Is church a good place to meet single girls?

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Jewel5712

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Lol...i think your chances of meeting a girl at church is a lot higher than a single woman meeting a man there...i feel its great if 2 people meet in a priority place in thier lives..however..if you break up..hope your church has a 2nd service each week..lol
 
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Avalon1 said:
I hope everyone is not going to think "Oh that guy is just here to hit on girls.". I'm 25 and I've never had a girlfriend, and I've only been on two dates.
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Go for it..seems like youre both "like minded" in your faith ..BIG PLUS...and only 2 dates? Who cares...quality over quantity and maybe God is protecting from unseen hurts if you dated others..or..less than the best for you..pray bout it..see how the Lord leads...
 
Jewel5712

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Avalon1 said:
I'm praying that I'll meet one. Theirs young adults at my church but the men outnumber the women 10 to 1.
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Thats odd...usually its the other way around..lol
 
Jewel5712

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Tommy379 said:
Not from my point of view
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Maybe its an age thing..not a lot of single men my age at church..theyre all sitting with thier wives..im going to Tommys church..scoot over Tommy :)
 
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I remember when I was single, any time a new guy showed up at church, I wanted to get to know him to see if it could lead to something more. lol.
 
Tommy379

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Jewel5712 said:
Maybe its an age thing..not a lot of single men my age at church..theyre all sitting with thier wives..im going to Tommys church..scoot over Tommy :)
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See, women usually have more options. Seeing that the prevalence of Christians is on the decline, men show up at church cause they have few to no options.
 
calibob

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Tommy379 said:
See, women usually have more options. Seeing that the prevalence of Christians is on the decline, men show up at church cause they have few to no options.
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I was trying to follow but it took a while. See I met my ex by accident. It never occurred to me go to church looking for women. I went there to make freinds and talk to achademic types that can talk for hours about the bible. I went to bars and laundrymats for women. In the washateria within 30 seconds I'd know if they were in a live in relationship or had kids. No joke.
 
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calibob said:
I was trying to follow but it took a while. See I met my ex by accident. It never occurred to me to to church looking for women. I went there to make freinds and talk to achademic types woh can talk for hours about the bible. I went to bars and laundrymats for women. In the washateria within 30 seconds I'd know if they were in a live in relationship or had kids. No joke.
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I met my ex in church too. Key word: ex.
 
Jewel5712

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calibob said:
I was trying to follow but it took a while. See I met my ex by accident. It never occurred to me go to church looking for women. I went there to make freinds and talk to achademic types that can talk for hours about the bible. I went to bars and laundrymats for women. In the washateria within 30 seconds I'd know if they were in a live in relationship or had kids. No joke.
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In all my years of going to church i havent had 1 single man to approach me to even say hi..ask me about the weather etc..shy boys!
 
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Jewel5712 said:
In all my years of going to church i havent had 1 single man to approach me to even say hi..ask me about the weather etc..shy boys!
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Maybe they looking for something else.
 
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Jewel5712 said:
In all my years of going to church i havent had 1 single man to approach me to even say hi..ask me about the weather etc..shy boys!
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That is a shame. If you visited my church we would not let that go uncorrected. Somebody would have greeted you and at least tried to talk a bit. You do not let visitors stand around without being greeted. That's just... just... not southern!
 
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Tommy379 said:
Maybe they looking for something else.
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Hopefully thier motives to even being in church to begin with is Seeking God..a date for brunch after church would be great too but secondary ;)
 
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Lynx said:
That is a shame. If you visited my church we would not let that go uncorrected. Somebody would have greeted you and at least tried to talk a bit. You do not let visitors stand around without being greeted. That's just... just... not southern!
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Thats awesome..southern hospitality..trumps some of these yanks up here..lol
 
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Lynx said:
That is a shame. If you visited my church we would not let that go uncorrected. Somebody would have greeted you and at least tried to talk a bit. You do not let visitors stand around without being greeted. That's just... just... not southern!
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Id even have to bring ya"all a chocolate pecan pie to eat on the porch swing! :)
 
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Jewel5712 said:
Hopefully thier motives to even being in church to begin with is Seeking God..a date for brunch after church would be great too but secondary ;)
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They're probably a bunch of dudes over 45, looking for 19 year olds that they can mold into the perfect wife. Reminds me of a Judge in Alabama.
 
Jewel5712

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Tommy379 said:
They're probably a bunch of dudes over 45, looking for 19 year olds that they can mold into the perfect wife. Reminds me of a Judge in Alabama.
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Lol....
 
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Jewel5712 said:
Id even have to bring ya"all a chocolate pecan pie to eat on the porch swing! :)
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*perk*

I have had chocolate pecan pie exactly once. It was amazing!
 
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