I sincerely want to marry.

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Daga

Daga

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I have been asking heaven to bless me with a wife. I keep praying for it. And I want to meet here here. In this place we have lots of beautiful women that are God fearing. I don't wish it you happen else where but here. A few people have been given testimonies of how they meet their wives and husbands here and I want to join in that regard and be part of that testmony group. It will be a great feeling to meet her here. There are a lot of us here who want to settle down with real men and women , I know plenty of us have had rough relationships , failed marriages , and been heart broken, but all things work together for good to them who believe. We can hook up , we can make it happen. We are family here if we believe. Let's do something in one accord.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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This is not an actual dating site. Try eharmony, or one of those places. :)

NO ONE is going to "hook up" with you. Not here anyways.
 
tourist

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Daga said:
I have been asking heaven to bless me with a wife. I keep praying for it. And I want to meet here here. In this place we have lots of beautiful women that are God fearing. I don't wish it you happen else where but here. A few people have been given testimonies of how they meet their wives and husbands here and I want to join in that regard and be part of that testmony group. It will be a great feeling to meet her here. There are a lot of us here who want to settle down with real men and women , I know plenty of us have had rough relationships , failed marriages , and been heart broken, but all things work together for good to them who believe. We can hook up , we can make it happen. We are family here if we believe. Let's do something in one accord.
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I believe that we have discussed this briefly before. In my opinion, it would be best to allow the members to know you better by being a regular contributor to the forums. Since you have joined you have only written 4 posts, but really nothing in detail about yourself. I do agree with you about the beautiful God-fearing women who are members, and by beautiful, I mean from the inside out. I assume that you have prayed to God about this and wish you well in this endeavor, but like I have said, allow the members to really get to know who you are and what you are about. This is going to take more than writing 4 posts, or even 40 posts. 400 posts should be sufficient for someone to make an informed opinion about you. You are right about the rough relationships, failed marriages and broken hearts. This usually happens when God is excluded from making a choice for a suitable mate. I speak from experience on this. Yeah, it was hell but I had only myself to blame. God has indeed blessed me with a loving and faithful wife of my heart's desire and I pray that God blesses you in this same way.
 
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Daga said:
I have been asking heaven to bless me with a wife. I keep praying for it. And I want to meet here here. In this place we have lots of beautiful women that are God fearing. I don't wish it you happen else where but here. A few people have been given testimonies of how they meet their wives and husbands here and I want to join in that regard and be part of that testmony group. It will be a great feeling to meet her here. There are a lot of us here who want to settle down with real men and women , I know plenty of us have had rough relationships , failed marriages , and been heart broken, but all things work together for good to them who believe. We can hook up , we can make it happen. We are family here if we believe. Let's do something in one accord.
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Your insistence on using this site as a dating site despite being told it's not suggests a disregard for rules and a belief you are somehow special. Warning signs that you would make a poor spouse.
And since it's clearly your sole focus it causes you to appear desperate which is a huge turn off to most people. So that's two things that make you appear undesirable.
Lastly since this isn't a dating site the women on here are not pleased with someone who comes here digging through the women hoping one randomly works out. Nor do they care for being approached by strangers looking for a date or spouse.
Seems you're off to a poor start on the site, both in terms of presenting yourself as a viable partner and in overall character.

Bear in mind that marriage is not a promise. And God is not a genie that grants us our wishes.
 
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Your insistence on using this site as a dating site despite being told it's not suggests a disregard for rules and a belief you are somehow special. Warning signs that you would make a poor spouse.
And since it's clearly your sole focus it causes you to appear desperate which is a huge turn off to most people. So that's two things that make you appear undesirable.
Lastly since this isn't a dating site the women on here are not pleased with someone who comes here digging through the women hoping one randomly works out. Nor do they care for being approached by strangers looking for a date or spouse.
Seems you're off to a poor start on the site, both in terms of presenting yourself as a viable partner and in overall character.

Bear in mind that marriage is not a promise. And God is not a genie that grants us our wishes.
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On your last paragraph I fully disagree. Yes, God is not a Genie, but if it is his will he will give us the desires of our hearts, for the bible tells us so
 
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Ask and it will be given. God doesnt always give us our desires just for our selfish benefit, but rather so we can produce good fruit. God helps us so we can help others.

Look at the patable of the talents. Those who had more, produced more, and then were goven even more. There were 3 categories in the parable of the talents, one who produced much, one who produced some, and one who produced none. We are not locked into any one of those. Instead God admonishes us to have an attitude of bearing fruit for him and his people.

God is our father, and he himself says that if ur son asks for a gift will u give him a scorpion? Of course not. Likewise our heavenly father knows how to give good gifts to his children. We were not put here to suffer but to being glory to God. Sometimes these go together but just as often they dont. God desires mercy not sacrifice.
 
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renewed_hope said:
On your last paragraph I fully disagree. Yes, God is not a Genie, but if it is his will he will give us the desires of our hearts, for the bible tells us so
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1 John 5:14-15
14 This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. 15 And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.
His will, not our hearts desire. Why not our hearts desire?
Jeremiah 7:9
The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?

The idea that God gives us things because we really want it is nothing more than prosperity gospel leakage infesting the church. If it were really true my life would be Much Much different. But it's not. In fact it's nearly everything i prayed Wouldn't happen. Yet I did not get my hearts desire.
And I see the same in most Christians lives. So sappy happy false teachings just aren't going to convince me of what scripture and real life teaches.
 
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Ugly said:
1 John 5:14-15
14 This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. 15 And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.
His will, not our hearts desire. Why not our hearts desire?
Jeremiah 7:9
The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?

The idea that God gives us things because we really want it is nothing more than prosperity gospel leakage infesting the church. If it were really true my life would be Much Much different. But it's not. In fact it's nearly everything i prayed Wouldn't happen. Yet I did not get my hearts desire.
And I see the same in most Christians lives. So sappy happy false teachings just aren't going to convince me of what scripture and real life teaches.
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My life is not what I asked for or what I expected either, but honestly I wouldn't change it for anything because it taught me so much about myself and created my faith in Christ Jesus much stronger. You can either sit at home moping and feeling sorry for yourself because things clearly didn't go your way or make the most of it. God uses these trials to show his presence in our lives. What you say totally contradicts scripture. Yes our hearts are easily deceived, but God also says he will give us the desires of our hearts, but we also must protect it using the armor of God in order to allow it to be pure
 
jameen

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Daga said:
I have been asking heaven to bless me with a wife. I keep praying for it. And I want to meet here here. In this place we have lots of beautiful women that are God fearing. I don't wish it you happen else where but here. A few people have been given testimonies of how they meet their wives and husbands here and I want to join in that regard and be part of that testmony group. It will be a great feeling to meet her here. There are a lot of us here who want to settle down with real men and women , I know plenty of us have had rough relationships , failed marriages , and been heart broken, but all things work together for good to them who believe. We can hook up , we can make it happen. We are family here if we believe. Let's do something in one accord.
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It is better to know people in person than online.

The better is she is your friend first so that you know all about her.

You cannot have anything if you don't work for it.

so I advise is to start dating. have a courage enough to say your true feelings if you fancy a woman.

and when you want to court someone, Lower your hopes so that when she rejected you, you will not feel a very painful heart ache.

you just need courage and confidence to get a lady.

In fact even womanizers can have a righteous partner.

what about you who is doing your best to be righteous in God's eyes.
 
EmilyFoster

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Hello, Daga. I’m praying that God will surround you with His love, give you guidance and bless you with the desires of your heart. Also, you might be interested to check out ChristianCafe.com. This online dating site seeks to connect individuals with other singles searching for a solid, God-honoring, marriage-focused relationship. It is Christian-owned and -operated, and has a large member base and proven track record.
 
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