Am greatly in need of a soul mate. It's been hard to continue in faith ,am doing my best but as they say " two heads better than one" , I think it would be a great thing to have someone to pray with, study with, do everything with. I just can't do somethings all alone. Life without a partner is a bit hellish. Trust me. I know what I mean. Everybody here claims they are here but not for relationship or dating but at the end loads were heartbroken and need mending. I need mending.
Point one - soulmate is a secular idea coming from pagan mythology, not biblical.
Point two - anyone who thinks they "need" a spouse is actually showing how bad it would be for them to get married.
The last thing you need is a spouse. You are already showing that you place too much emphasis on what you expect another person to do to make you happy and fulfilled. That is not a spouse's job. It's been well proven putting so much reliance on another leads to an inevitable fall because...
People are imperfect and will let you down.
And it is too much to ask of another to be everything you expect.
Learn to be content single. Get to a point where your goal is not to find another person to make everything better and easier. Then you'll be in an actual mental and emotional place where marriage won't be a guaranteed failure. But with your current mindset no marriage would succeed.
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