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Tommy379

Tommy379

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I'm single and curious about you.
 
ChandlerFan

ChandlerFan

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I'm sure the super weird and creepy responses don't help either lol.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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ChandlerFan said:
I'm sure the super weird and creepy responses don't help either lol.
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The one guy talking about Chinese food like he wanted her to tell him how to make chop suey or something.
 
Shadey

Shadey

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Jaymunoz said:
Hey everyone, I’m new to this as well as newly single. It’s been an interesting journey learning myself all over again. I didn’t realize how much of myself I gave to the other person. Now I am feeling alone, which isn’t always a bad thing. How are you guys keeping yourself in a positive mindset during this time of teaching yourself to be content alone?
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Hi Jaymunoz. I've been separated for over a year now (not my choice) and I struggle with being alone at times. I hit the gym 5 times a week, pray and read the Bible which seems to help in times of loneliness. I find talking to God really helps me and he has made me stronger. Independently dependent on Him.
 
tourist

tourist

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Shadey said:
Hi Jaymunoz. I've been separated for over a year now (not my choice) and I struggle with being alone at times. I hit the gym 5 times a week, pray and read the Bible which seems to help in times of loneliness. I find talking to God really helps me and he has made me stronger. Independently dependent on Him.
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I know from experience that being newly single can be a difficult adjustment. It is good of you to pray and read the bible to help with the loneliness. After my disastrous first marriage at the age of 23 which lasted 6 1/2 horrible years I was single and celibate for 18 years. I like how you worded your last sentence. Glad to have you join us. Perhaps this site will be a means to alleviate your loneliness. Welcome to CC.
 
Shadey

Shadey

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tourist said:
I know from experience that being newly single can be a difficult adjustment. It is good of you to pray and read the bible to help with the loneliness. After my disastrous first marriage at the age of 23 which lasted 6 1/2 horrible years I was single and celibate for 18 years. I like how you worded your last sentence. Glad to have you join us. Perhaps this site will be a means to alleviate your loneliness. Welcome to CC.
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Thank you for welcoming me.
 
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Ugly

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Shadey said:
Hi Jaymunoz. I've been separated for over a year now (not my choice) and I struggle with being alone at times. I hit the gym 5 times a week, pray and read the Bible which seems to help in times of loneliness. I find talking to God really helps me and he has made me stronger. Independently dependent on Him.
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She hasn't logged in for a month. She was only here a week.
 
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toinena

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Welcome to the singles'

I cope with being single hanging out here and with friends on Skype and WhatsApp. And work a lot. What keeps me motivated is a houseexpantion that is a way to not spend so much money on shopping. I love my work but is not more ambitious about it than enjoying every day (mostly) and doing a good job. I also study.

Somedays I remember I am single and lonely, but most of the days I am just working and enjoying life. Now I have a project to get out more and meet people IRL.... let's see. It has been fun so far.

I hope you will enjoy your time here. Some here are eternally single and some are single also after they get married.....
 
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OnAxisLife

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Focus on God and if He becomes the purpose of affection then there no worries on being alone cause your not alone
 
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John4Christ

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The closer we are to the word of God and the Holy Spirit, the farther we are from distraction, discouragement and discomfort.
 
EmilyFoster

EmilyFoster

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Hello and welcome to the forum, friend. I hope you find this space encouraging! You might be interested to go through these articles about Christian singes that I recently came across. I’m praying that God will bless you in a loving way and guide you!
 
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