Stunnedbygrace,
I asked the “What do you think speaking in tongues is for?” question because while I was praying about some other things, that question popped up as the single question I should ask you. (I failed in that I couldn’t bring myself to post it verbatim.)
Meanwhile, I went back through some old postings and decided I won’t just throw scriptures back and forth from a heavily defended position. In other words, I’m not willing to shake off the dust of my feet and write you off as though you are just hard-headed and a lost cause.
For similar reasons I didn’t just step in for Waggles and directly answer your query to him. I’ve learned from interactions with others that some direct answers do not bring greater understanding...rather they just bring an end to the conversation. If given a direct answer, without the understanding of WHY, an answer may seem inflamatory, hateful and/or directly contradictory to truth. In other words, I didn’t want to do that and have you wipe off the dust of your feet against ME, and write me off as though I am just hard-headed and a lost cause.![]()
So, in spirit of honest communication, I’ll also volunteer what I mean when I refer to “speaking in tongues” and what I understand it to be for, and how it does or doesn't benefit me in reality, in order that you might understand why I would be so bold as to suggest everyone should have it...and would even say they need to have it. (It just might take more time than I have right now so please grant me some time and grace between posts. Of course, you’re welcome to continue posting...and to send questions my way.)
Love in Jesus,
Kelby
Stunnedbygrace,Why would I appear hardheaded or a lost cause for trying to get an answer from someone as to whether they believe one has not received the Holy Spirit if they have never spoken in tongues...?
Are you sure the hardheaded one isn't the person who won't succinctly answer...?![]()
Stunnedbygrace,
That's a fair enough point.
You wouldn't be hard headed for asking. My comment was more to expose my own shortcomings rather than to suggest you to be hardheaded. Specifically: Sometimes I forget past conversations, and that the person I'm speaking with is more than the beliefs they hold. And, I'm not as good as Jesus in answering.
Neither is hardheadedness the only possible reason for a person avoiding a direct answer to a direct question. Two examples:
#1. Jesus' answer when they asked him where he got his authority. He answered question with question and never did give them the direct answer they sought. Partly, I believe, because he recognized the volatility of the direct answer. He was able to perfectly expose the nature of that volatility and knew how to avoid it. (Matthew 21: 23-27) I am not that good. I may recognize the volatility, but not the perfect way to handle it.
#2. When they asked Jesus “Shall we give or shall we not give?. When offered an “A” or “B” question Jesus did the following: diverted, clarified the situation, then created and chose “C”. (Mark 12:13-17)
Love in Jesus,
Kelby
So...waggles wouldn't answer this question: if a person has never spoken in tongues, does it mean they have not received the Holy Spirit?
Except that I have never spoken in tongues, yet I received the Spirit almost 12 years ago and we share a meal/commune together often. Do you think I have only imagined meeting God...?
Ezek 13:22 comes to mind...
Stunned,Doesn't seem to be a foolproof method of determining kelby. It can be faked, as has been attested to here. Better to do as we're taught, in my opinion, and look for the fruits of the Spirit. They can't be faked for long. Eventually, someone will bump you and your heart will spill whatever it holds.
Stunned,
Yes. Keep checking the fruits. But that is far from the immediacy of evidence described in Acts.
And if you think tongues/no tongues is difficult to sort...what happens on those days that you yourself are not behaving very spiritually? Are we to conclude that you do or do not have the Holy Ghost based on weaknesses you have yet to overcome?
Love in Jesus,
Kelby
You won't declare a person as having received the Spirit until and unless they speak in tongue? but by your own admission it can be faked through pressure. So you would declare a faking person saved and a possibly saved person as unsaved, thereby encouraging someone you shouldn't and discouraging someone you shouldnt.