The problem with this concept of judging is that it is so blown out of proportion, all because of lack of understanding, in my opinion.
There are too types of judging, each has to be understood in the correct context. In the past I often misunderstood this concept myself, but over the past few years, and as time goes by, better study, it becomes clearer.
Now when it comes to "judging others" the correct context has to be applied, now that is either in the context of decision making or carrying out a sentence in relation to a punishment of a crime committed.
Now we need to make decisions everyday, this is fact. When people spread a false/deceptive teaching that contradicts sound doctrine, one has to make a decision to either accept the deceptive teaching, or dismiss it, or perhaps even condemn such a deceptive teaching, but some people don't seem to understand the difference between condemning a person and condemning a teaching/doctrine.
But when it comes to this gender identity madness, its a losing battle. If a person even tries to condemn such a theory as unacceptable, the person who believes this crap automatically assumes they are being condemned. You just cannot reason with some of these snowflakes and fruitcakes out there. And there are clips on Youtube to that show this.