Cant find someone who will love me for me

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All guys want (at least in my opinion) is sex. what i want is a REAL relationship. I hate waiting. That just aint my thang. What should i do?
 
Someone does love you more than anything and that is God! You might be losing sight of that! I know I do!
 
find a guy so focused on god that thats what attracts you to him i bet 9x out of 10 he will want the same as you do..... i kno i do
 
seek God first in your life not a man, you need a relationship with God above all things, it is the most important relationship you have. Seek the Lord and draw close to him, and instead of having that hunger for men, turn the hunger over for God.
 
just believe that god has put som1 in ur life for u and just w8 upon him ! edge is right good advice just seek god 1st and then everthing else shuld just fit in to gods plan!

but most guys i know even christian are just looking for what u think so just becareful to if u do start dating and set the boundaries early on
 
lovingmygod10 said:
All guys want (at least in my opinion) is sex. what i want is a REAL relationship. I hate waiting. That just aint my thang. What should i do?
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not all guys. just those who are stuck in the flesh and want to feed their fleshy side. sorry your havin a hard time finding the one God wants youto be with.
 
my mom always tells me to ask GOD for my prince. He knows everything. He loves you. He will give you the RiGHT ONE. your His child and He will never give your hand to someone who won't take care of you.
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Don't just wait for it. it'll be too boring and tiring. PRAY for it! GOD Bless. :)


Love,
princess valerie

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Oh boy the number of times I have told my girl friends this... Yes alot of guys wanna "get in your pants" but believe me if God put the man he dreamed up for you now you wouldnt enjoy it as much. Just think about how much you will love the man of your dream once you learn to love your self... Just think about the amount of work God is putting into his life, his own experience,beliefs, bad girl friends, failures, success, and all in all its so you and him can share a bond. If you wanna be greedy and ask for that love now you are missing out on half of love. You will find a someone for you and for the right reasons. If all else fails your love for God is still more than enough to suffice in heaven.
 
I know what you are going through and how you feel, but God will send that one guy that you are meant to be with. Just keep praying and waiting. Just remember things have to happen on God terms and not yours....but God loves you and you don't need a guy in your life to show you love or make you feel beautiful. :)
 
Your statement is a bit biased... most men enjoy sex. True, but many just want love too.
 
my only advice from experience and listening, is that sometimes you have to give to receive, and not everyone understands your needs at the moment, but if you find someone who listens, wonderful, untill then so I have been told about myself, what do you need to change about yourself, without killing yourself.

And I've been told everything is timing.
 
Im not going to lie, Im a guy, and I want to have sex. But Im waiting until I marry the one that God has chosen for me.
 
As hard as it is, WAIT. But not a sit-and-mope-wait...keep yourself busy. Be involved with your friends and family, and God will bless you from staying away from ungodly guys, and guide you to who you're meant to be with. :)
 
I feel d same way too. Look im32 and still single haha.bt im waiting for god's gift.
 
edge said:
seek God first in your life not a man, you need a relationship with God above all things, it is the most important relationship you have. Seek the Lord and draw close to him, and instead of having that hunger for men, turn the hunger over for God.
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Don't worry "lovingmygod10", i'm sure God has somone special for your life who will have bigger plans in life of just having sex.. But you know as Edge said, before it's good to build a strong relationship with God. He wants to give you a really abbundant life also if single. And the right one will come when you'll be ready ;)
 
I know exactly how you feel sis. And, that is a good way to be.
God will send you The One. Wait on him because, It will be worth it(:
 
Patience, young grasshopper.

Remember these words are coming from a 32 year old, single, male, youth pastor. I would recommend reading some books, especially the Bible. See how God writes love stories. Starting with the Love story He wrote for you. God loved you so much He sacrificed His only Son (John 3:16, Romans 5:8) Know that God first wants a relationship with you first really before He brings that other person into your life. I believe this wholeheartedly and struggle at the same time. Being single wondering when I will get married. But I do believe that God is in control and trust He will bring me the person at the appropriate time.

Remeber we are to Love God with all our Heart, Soul, and Mind. And then we are to Love our neighbor as our self (the great commandment). So my advice to you is focus on loving God. Praising Him and praying to Him with all your heart. Think about what you might need in a mate and pray for that or pray that God reveals to you what you need in a partner. Then pray that God will bring that person to you and that you will know who they are. Enjoy learning the people you date and keep God centered at all times in your life. Guard your heart.

Not sure what else to say but God bless you as you seek God's will for your life.
 
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