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Demi777 said:
yea its his loss and my pain :(
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I know it sucks right now.

and I don’t mean any harm saying this ok?

But think about this, things could be much worse than they are now with you and your dad. I’m the opposite of everyone I know cause I don’t have a healthy relationship with my mom.. but I was starting to reconnect with my dad before he passed away. So it’s not better or worse to lose either parent, but do keep in mind that he’s still alive, whether he acknowledges you or not, he’s still your father and I’m sure deep down inside of him.. life or death, he would come to your rescue. :)
 
mailmandan said:
Sorry for your pain Demi. :(

You do however, have people on Christian Chat that love and care about you. :)
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yea well more ppl started to judge me once they found my lifestyle is not ''christian enough'' etc for them after one stupid post...
im just so fed up :( hugs
 
LittleBit1987 said:
I know it sucks right now.

and I don’t mean any harm saying this ok?

But think about this, things could be much worse than they are now with you and your dad. I’m the opposite of everyone I know cause I don’t have a healthy relationship with my mom.. but I was starting to reconnect with my dad before he passed away. So it’s not better or worse to lose either parent, but do keep in mind that he’s still alive, whether he acknowledges you or not, he’s still your father and I’m sure deep down inside of him.. life or death, he would come to your rescue. :)
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he did nearly let me die..the only reason he brought me to the ER is cause he was scared to get in trouble with the law... he didnt want me to get any more treatment and the youth services had to force him..nuff said
 
NoNameMcgee said:
pff try not sleeping once in 27 years

Oneupmcgee:cool:
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Dude....

Not Even fair. -_-

No one knows the loss of sleep till they have babies...

And to think I used to complain about “not sleeping” BEFORE I had my son...

lord what was I thinking???
 
Demi777 said:
he did nearly let me die..the only reason he brought me to the ER is cause he was scared to get in trouble with the law... he didnt want me to get any more treatment and the youth services had to force him..nuff said
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Dead-beat Dad or not....

He’s still YOUR birth father.
 
Demi777 said:
Yes and noone is questioning that he is. Doesnt mean tho that he cares. I can wish he would..but in fact, he does not
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All you can do is pray.... pray for a change of heart...

Ive been doing that for years about my mom, so only time will tell.
 
Demi777 said:
yea well more ppl started to judge me once they found my lifestyle is not ''christian enough'' etc for them after one stupid post...
im just so fed up :( hugs
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I get it. I once attended a church several years ago in which all they did was judge everyone around them. Sometimes it can seem like, "Christian or not Christian, people are still people." :(

God is our righteous judge who is better at convicting us in regards to our lifestyle than others. We should encourage and strengthen each other and not tear each other down. None of us are perfect and we all have our strengths and weaknesses. The Christian life is a growing process for all of us.
 
mailmandan said:
I get it. I once attended a church several years ago in which all they did was judge everyone around them. Sometimes it can seem like, "Christian or not Christian, people are still people." :(

God is our righteous judge who is better at convicting us in regards to our lifestyle than others. We should encourage and strengthen each other and not tear each other down. None of us are perfect and we all have our strengths and weaknesses. The Christian life is a growing process for all of us.
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well said dan
 
Demi777 said:
Yes and noone is questioning that he is. Doesnt mean tho that he cares. I can wish he would..but in fact, he does not
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Demi, my heart is breaking for you. I wish there were words to immediately take all this away, but I can pray for you -- for your comfort from our Heavenly Father, for His leading, for His guidance, for his blessing. Do you mind if I friend you so that your face is often in front of me, so I will pray for you often?
 
mailmandan said:
I get it. I once attended a church several years ago in which all they did was judge everyone around them. Sometimes it can seem like, "Christian or not Christian, people are still people." :(

God is our righteous judge who is better at convicting us in regards to our lifestyle than others. We should encourage and strengthen each other and not tear each other down. None of us are perfect and we all have our strengths and weaknesses. The Christian life is a growing process for all of us.
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exacly..thats one reason why i havent been posting a lot in discussions anymore. people started to ignore me and seem to think that my opinion has become irrelevant all in all. the lack of compassion is sufficating. even if people disagree with my decisions, heck i dont always think others make the right decisions, i still tolorate the diffrences as everyone is different. But some people just bash and think pushing others away is a good alternative.
if Jesus had pushed away people for their choices none of us would be christians as people would have not followed him then
 
Beez said:
Demi, my heart is breaking for you. I wish there were words to immediately take all this away, but I can pray for you -- for your comfort from our Heavenly Father, for His leading, for His guidance, for his blessing. Do you mind if I friend you so that your face is often in front of me, so I will pray for you often?
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sure you can add me as a friend. :) hugs
 
Demi777 said:
exacly..thats one reason why i havent been posting a lot in discussions anymore. people started to ignore me and seem to think that my opinion has become irrelevant all in all. the lack of compassion is sufficating. even if people disagree with my decisions, heck i dont always think others make the right decisions, i still tolorate the diffrences as everyone is different. But some people just bash and think pushing others away is a good alternative.
if Jesus had pushed away people for their choices none of us would be christians as people would have not followed him then
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i missed whatever posts youre talking about...
and we dont really speak much


but ive seen you around
and i see a sister in Christ who heard Gods call way earlier in life than i did...

God has obviously taught you a lot ... especially for being so young


you and your family will be in my prayers demi...

im sorry things are so tough right now
 
NoNameMcgee said:
i missed whatever posts youre talking about...
and we dont really speak much


but ive seen you around
and i see a sister in Christ who heard Gods call way earlier in life than i did...

God has obviously taught you a lot ... especially for being so young


you and your family will be in my prayers demi...

im sorry things are so tough right now
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life for me is always tough even when things go well. Yea in the family forum the thread about a 17yr old with a 26 or so old. i revealed too much there because i got a pretty big age gap with mz bf myself and me saying that made hell break loose
 
Demi777 said:
life for me is always tough even when things go well. Yea in the family forum the thread about a 17yr old with a 26 or so old. i revealed too much there because i got a pretty big age gap with mz bf myself and me saying that made hell break loose
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Don't worry about other people judging you, they only do that because they are insecure in their own lives. You are a beloved child of God and we here love you too! Do not forget to be grateful and joyful especially in trying times. My own birth father left when I was very young so in a way I understand your pain. I was in my mid 40s before I was able to let go of my anger and pain towards my birth father. I pray you are able to overcome it sooner.
 
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Demi777 said:
life for me is always tough even when things go well. Yea in the family forum the thread about a 17yr old with a 26 or so old. i revealed too much there because i got a pretty big age gap with mz bf myself and me saying that made hell break loose
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ehhh

a few years from now when you two are married im sure people will lower their noses:rolleyes:


we are all growing

please dont let other peoples words keep you from being used here

ive seen you be pretty encouraging
:)
 
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