Perhaps you need a spiritual endoscopy?
Instead of fallacious ad hominem attacks you need to explain where I am in error. That is the Alinsky method of rhetoric.
1. Demonize the opposition.
2. Never discuss the issues because it humanizes them.
With fallacious ad hominem attacks that is the path you are starting to go down.
FYI ad hominem attack is attacking the person instead of the issue.
I am on a political board and that is very common there. A Christian board means people are supposed to be above using that tactic and just discuss the issue in light of the scriptures.