Not sure if you are meaning not correcting one another when in context...
Colossians 3:1 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.[SUP]2 [/SUP]Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.[SUP] 3 [/SUP]For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.[SUP]4 [/SUP]When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.[SUP]5 [/SUP]Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:[SUP]6 [/SUP]For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:[SUP] 7 [/SUP]In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.[SUP] 8 [/SUP]But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.[SUP]9 [/SUP]Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;[SUP] 10 [/SUP]And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:[SUP]11 [/SUP]Where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all. [SUP]12 [/SUP]Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; 13Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. [SUP]14 [/SUP]And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness. [SUP]15 [/SUP]And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.
If that was what you were trying to apply that verse 12 to mean, you are forgetting the warning and the consequence for ignoring that warning given to believers, if you think correcting one another is not a sign of humility. Correcting one another is a sign of Christ's love in seeking their good standing in the Lord in maintaining that proper fellowship with the Father & the Son.[/QUOTE
The question is a simple one or at least is meant to be so. The question of humility is genuine.
I can say for myself that I probably should be more humble. No longer do I see humility as being a "door mat" but as having a spirit of compassion, kindness, meekness.